The thoughts of a husband who is "worlds and oceans inferior" to his wife

On the surface, Mr. Vuong is "worlds and worlds" inferior to his wife. His wife, Ms. Hoai, is pretty, cheerful, and exudes elegance, while Mr. Vuong is simple and honest like a farmer.

While Ms. Hoai has a doctorate, Mr. Vuong only has a bachelor's degree. Ms. Hoai works in the field of diplomacy , has a wide network of relationships, and always looks elegant and polite, while Mr. Vuong is a sunburned, dusty, and worldly bridge engineer.

Ms. Hoai drives her own car to work while Mr. Vuong still works diligently alone on his motorbike. Many people see this and say that in the family, Mr. Vuong is definitely "inferior" to his wife, being controlled by her in every aspect.

Mr. Vuong's house is near a public flower garden, so in front of the house there are always many people playing, walking, and exercising . In particular, tea shops and coffee shops are always gathering places for women walking and men playing chess to gossip. They are no different from sidewalk "news hunters".

Mr. Vuong and his wife are also not out of their "sight". Sometimes, seeing Mr. Vuong's caring and attentive gestures towards his wife such as carrying her bag to the car, opening the gate, opening the car door to welcome her..., the older women would "sigh" and say "losing value".

Meanwhile, some men tease and gossip: "Men are men but they become slaves to their wives", "if the wife is an ATM, the husband can do anything", "if the wife is a doctor or a big boss, the husband must humble himself"...

We know that people's mouths are biased, negative, and stereotyped, but who can stop them from discussing other people's family matters? And when those unpleasant words "fly" to the ears of Hoai and her husband through the maid, it is not pleasant at all.

Having lived with Mr. Vuong for many years, from the time they fell in love and got married, Ms. Hoai understood Mr. Vuong's nature very well. The nature of her and her husband's work was different, and Mr. Vuong was not a flashy, flashy person, so she did not "force" him to be this or that to match his wife's appearance.

She does not have the thought of "short husband - tall wife". She and he came together with sincere love, then forever, her family happiness will also be built with that sincere love.

Mr. Vuong once asked his wife: "I have no intention of going to graduate school or getting a doctorate like you. I think applying all the knowledge I learned from teachers and experts and drawing experience from real work is a wonderful thing.

With the sharing, support and consensus of her husband, the wife can strive and spend time on work - Illustration photo

I have no intention of striving to do this or that, nor do I intend to switch to the research field, so I find academic titles and degrees unnecessary for me. Are you disappointed and… embarrassed with the people around you about this difference?

Listening to him, she understood that behind it was the heart of a husband who always loved and thought of his wife. Although husband and wife trusted and understood each other's personalities very well, deep down, everyone had their own worries.

She turned to hug her husband, coaxing him like a kitten seeking warmth: "My success is also your success! Without your sharing, support, and solidarity, how would I have time to strive and spend time on work? Behind my success, your contribution is much greater than my efforts"...

I say that not to please you, but the truth is, I always love, respect and thank you very much.

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