
"Dad, will you play a game of chess with me?"
Okay. Dad's free right now...
You're playing much better today! Where did you learn these chess moves?
- I'm learning online. I have to study on my own to beat you, Dad.
"Okay. Dad supports that!"
The conversation between Mr. Nguyen Dai Duong and his son Nguyen Trung Hieu, in Group 20, Bac Cuong Ward, sounds intimate, full of love, and always ends with joyful laughter.


For Mr. Duong, spending time with his children isn't a big deal, but simply about small habits: playing chess, going for a walk with them for at least 30 minutes each day, and talking before bedtime. When he has free time, he helps his son tend the vegetable garden behind the house or teaches him how to repair simple electrical appliances around the house.
Although he's not used to saying loving phrases like "I love you so much," or "My darling son," it's his gentle and patient care that keeps his children always close to him.
“Dad always speaks very gently. Even when I make mistakes, he never scolds me but instead analyzes where I went wrong and hopes I will admit my mistake and correct it. Whenever I'm tired, stressed, or under pressure from studying, even if I don't say anything, Dad always knows and quietly sits beside me, encouraging me, making me feel like I always have a strong emotional support system,” Trung Hieu proudly said about his father.

Sharing his views on raising children, Mr. Duong said: "I can't pay as much meticulous attention to my children as my wife, partly because of my personality, and partly because I'm busy with work. But I always have special priorities in my heart for my children. For example, no matter how busy I am, I always make time to take them to school every day. This is also when father and children have more time to talk and encourage each other to try harder. I also regularly observe my children to see the changes in their physical and psychological state so that I can support them in each stage of their growth."
The way Mr. Duong cares for and shows affection to his children is similar to that of Mr. Nguyen Hai Long, from Group 8A, Nam Cuong Ward, Cam Duong Commune. Fathers are often less talkative, sometimes hesitant to express their emotions verbally, but somehow, their children always sense their love and reciprocate with respect and pride.

For Mr. Long, being able to instill a love of badminton in his two children is a great success. Besides allowing him and his children to practice together every day and travel for competitions regularly, it also gives them more options for their future careers.
Mr. Long said: "I don't often say 'I love you,' but I believe my children understand my feelings. The fact that they also enjoy the same sport I like allows the three of us to spend more time together and share many things about life. Thanks to that, I also have the opportunity to witness my children's growth and be with them on many special occasions."

Currently, Mr. Long plays both the roles of father and mother because his wife works far from home. Understanding the hardships their parents face, Mr. Long's two children are more independent than their peers.
Nguyen Bui Bao An, Mr. Long's daughter, happily said: "Mom works far away and only comes home on weekends, so my sisters and I proactively help Dad with the housework. Dad is very calm and quiet, but sometimes he surprises me with his thoughtfulness. For example, once while we were eating, he said, 'Your birthday is in a few days, Bao An, what would you like to eat? I'll buy it for you.' I was so surprised and happy. Usually, only Mom remembers the whole family's birthdays and takes the initiative to prepare everything. Now that Mom works far away, I didn't think Dad would remember my birthday. I love Dad and my family very much!"
A father's love is not loud or ostentatious, but it is always present in simple actions: a gentle reminder, a meal waiting for his child to come home, or simply being there when his child needs him. On Father's Day, the heartfelt stories of Mr. Duong, Mr. Long, and many other fathers serve as a warm reminder that a father's love is always a solid foundation, a silent but invaluable source of strength in every family.
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