According to The Thaiger newspaper, the woman named Jean and her husband lived in the same village in Thailand. After a period of love, the two decided to get married and gave birth to a beautiful, adorable baby girl. The life of this small family is basically peaceful and happy.
However, in the past few years, the different nature of their jobs has caused Jean and her husband to gradually become more distant and colder than before. While Ms. Jean is an office worker, only works office hours and then goes home, her husband works freelance, has irregular working hours, and has little time to spend with his family.
In the past year, Jean noticed that her husband seemed indifferent and depressed, so she tried to organize her work and take advantage of the time to warm up their relationship. However, whenever Jean suggested it, her husband refused on the grounds that he was "too tired from work and had no energy left for romance or love." Just like that, Jean was also discouraged, the feelings and connection between the two gradually faded.
Finally, the end of the marriage came on her daughter's 5th birthday, when Jean organized a special birthday party for her. When taking family photos, she hoped her husband could kiss her on the cheek to have a sweet photo as a souvenir. At first, the husband seemed hesitant and did not like it, but after a while, he reluctantly complied.
Then the husband went out to buy drinks. At this time, her 5-year-old daughter turned to Ms. Jean and said: “Mom, do you know why dad doesn't kiss you? Because dad kissed a beautiful woman every afternoon. I saw it when dad picked me up from school. Dad told me not to tell mom. It's a secret between you and dad. Therefore, this is also a secret between mother and child."
The innocent words of a little girl turned a happy birthday party into the end of a marriage. Illustration
Hearing these words, Miss Jean's heart sank. The next day, she confronted her husband to ask about the "other woman", and he finally admitted to the affair.
In the end, Ms. Jean and her husband decided to divorce but still disputed over property division and child custody.
Jean shared her story on social networks, advising everyone to pay attention to small rifts in the family, don't wait until it's too late, there will be no chance to heal.
Men cheat to find feelings that cannot be found in their partner
Many men choose a mistress who is not as beautiful or talented as their wife. However, the truth is that he is attracted to girls who possess personality traits that his wife does not possess.
For example, his wife is loud and noisy at home, has a strong and impetuous temperament. Therefore, the "outdoor girl" he chose was a gentle, discreet woman. For him, it was a new feeling he had never felt before. Especially when all the newness has passed, extramarital affairs with new things create a temptation that is hard to resist.
Having a mistress is the execution in action of the sketch he has drawn of a perfect life partner in his mind.
Most men who cheat do not really love their lover, but simply want to find a new emotion. The easiest test to verify this is when the mistress demands to make the relationship public, or wants the man to leave his wife to be with her.
Men cheat because they cheat only because they allow themselves to do so. Illustration
Most men have a selfish mentality, do not want to leave their wife and children, nor do they want to lose their partner. This clearly shows their greedy nature, never true love.
Therefore, in one of his studies, Robert Weiss, author of many books researching marriage, pointed out a fact: Many married men, even though their families are happy, still commit adultery.
His research shows that sometimes men cheat not because they are dissatisfied with their current marriage. Simply put, they commit adultery just because they allow themselves to do so. Although adultery is condemnable in the eyes of society, for men, it has little to do with their love and care for their family.
Robert Weiss emphasized: “Men think: Yes, I cheated, but I still do my responsibilities well with my family, I'm still a good father and husband. The only thing these men don't understand is that their wives don't think the same way they do." Robert's conclusion shows that cheating men underestimate the impact of their behavior on their partners.
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