My husband is not a tycoon.

I don't cater to a mass audience.

After three years, her return with the music video "Come Back to Me" shows a significant change in Vo Ha Tram's musical style. What significance does this product have for her music career?

I would like to call this a milestone in my career after 16 years in the profession, a milestone after a long journey of continuous effort and hard work. It is also a significant achievement for me after all my efforts. This breakthrough will be the motivation for me to continue pursuing the path I have chosen, to continue working seriously and meticulously in my profession.

Singer Vo Ha Tram

But I will always be myself, not chasing trends, nor rigidly adhering to a specific genre of music. Everything depends on fate if there is a suitable song or product that strikes a balance between professionalism and entertainment value.

Why don't you change your musical style to better suit the audience's tastes?

Artists win over audiences with their musical individuality. When audiences connect with that musical individuality, they stay for the long term. I'm not an artist who caters to popular tastes; I'm not good at researching the market to understand what it wants and serving the tastes of the masses.

I only do what I enjoy, catering to a specific audience rather than the general public. Sometimes, following audience trends can lead to quick fame, but it doesn't bring happiness. That's not what I aim for. In fact, I'm still doing well in my profession. This proves that I believe my choice was still the right one.

"Come Back to Me" has many elements of Indian culture. Do you plan to break into the Bollywood market?

It's a huge market with many talented stars. I don't dare dream too big, I just strive for what's within my capabilities. Let things happen naturally, so the audience can feel it in the most natural way possible.

My husband painted my dreams.

I heard that your Indian husband invested 5 billion VND in your music video. What role does your husband play in your career?

Vikas (Vo Ha Tram's husband) brings me peace and balance in my life. As a result, I have more positive energy and perform better in my career. My husband also helps me to work with passion, without worrying about making ends meet or the costs of producing my work.

At this time, I have the support and companionship of my partner, which gives me the confidence to continue pursuing and conquering the path I've chosen. Because when I feel comfortable and free, I can play the game of music most freely.

With a wealthy husband, does she no longer have to worry about money in her life?

I don't know what would define a tycoon, but it would certainly mean someone with a lot of money. My husband isn't a tycoon; he still works hard to earn money. I also worry about earning money. Our life isn't wealthy; we just strive to have enough money to realize our projects. What my husband does is help me realize my dreams. He's my partner on this journey.

So, did the pressure of making ends meet start when your family had young children?

Being a cautious person, even with my husband's support, I still proactively manage everything. Before having children, we worked hard and saved money for raising them. I didn't want to be like those families who have children when their finances aren't stable. That easily leads to conflicts over money, disagreements, and family disputes.

Our preparations so far have probably been correct. Our family life remains happy and fulfilling, and we are raising our children in the best possible conditions.

Vo Ha Tram and her husband and daughter.

How have you changed since becoming a mother?

I work harder and put in more effort. However, I'm also calmer and more forgiving. Raising a child is truly not easy.

When a mother gives birth, she always thinks she's matured, but on the journey of raising her child, I realize I still have much to learn. I learn to mature so I can strive and sacrifice for my child, giving them a better future.

Coming from two different cultures, do you and your husband often have conflicts when it comes to raising your children?

My husband dotes on our daughter. He wants to protect and shield her 100%. When she cries, he's so flustered he doesn't even know what to do.

However, both Vietnamese and Indian cultures highly value the foundation of the family. What my wife and I want and teach our daughter, Moon, is to be independent, to make her own decisions, and to take responsibility for those decisions. Later, she will be able to stand on her own two feet without depending on her parents.

We also teach our children about gratitude, from small things to big ones. Knowing how to say sorry and thank you are two important conditions for them to grow up with and enter life.

An Indian mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law like her own child.

The singer is happy because her mother-in-law loves her daughter-in-law.

Having been married to an Indian man for almost four years, how do you feel you've integrated into Indian culture?

I didn't try to force myself to fit in; everything came naturally. Whenever my mother-in-law visited Vietnam, I learned many new things from her each day, and I felt more love and connection with my husband's family. Gradually, I became more integrated into Indian culture.

The best thing about getting married is that I'm loved by my husband's entire family. My mother-in-law is very fond of me and often buys me clothes. She treats me like her own daughter, caring for me as a mother would. My sister-in-law is a fashion enthusiast, so we share similar tastes. Whenever we meet, we go shopping and get beauty treatments together.

Despite the language barrier, I understand that if I genuinely love and respect them, and want to care for and look after them, they will also understand my feelings.

Did you face a lot of pressure from your husband's family?

My husband's family doesn't believe that a daughter-in-law has to stay home to cook and wash dishes. My mother-in-law doesn't force me, nor does she expect me to lift a finger to do anything. Vikas has also been influenced by that belief.

In fact, from the very beginning of our relationship, I told Vikas that I wasn't good at cooking or housework. I have a job outside the home, and I'm exhausted when I get home. My husband understands that because he's in the same situation.

Are you and your husband planning to move to India to live?

I have no intention of settling in any country. My husband and I have a stable life in Vietnam, with family here. Occasionally, the family will travel to India to visit my husband's family.

My husband also has no plans to return to his homeland to live. Life in India is quite stressful, both in terms of personal life and work. In Vietnam, my husband has his own career and many opportunities for advancement. Therefore, Vikas always considers Vietnam his second home.

Thank you!

Vo Ha Tram, born in 1990, has won numerous awards in music competitions such as Tuoi Doi Menh Mong 2005, Tieng Hat Chu Ve Con 2006, Ngoi Sao Tieng Hat Truyen Hinh 2007, Guong Mat Than Quen 2016, and Hay Nghe Toi Hat 2018.

In January 2019, Vo Ha Tram married businessman Vikas Chaudhary, who is 12 years older than her. Vikas is an Indian businessman currently living and working in Ho Chi Minh City. In July 2021, they welcomed their first daughter, affectionately nicknamed Moon.

Source: http://www.baogiaothong.vn/vo-ha-tram-chong-toi-khong-phai-dai-gia-d588341.html