Ms. Ngoc Lam and her husband always support each other in their work and family life. In the photo: Ms. Ngoc Lam and her husband participating in a handicraft exhibition celebrating Vietnamese Family Day. Photo: Provided by the couple.
Besides her position as Chairwoman of the Women's Union of Nhon Nghia commune, Phong Dien district, Ms. Ngoc Lam is well-known in the locality as one of the exemplary models of a happy family. Ms. Ngoc Lam confided that in order to do well in her work for the Women's Union as well as take care of her family, she receives great support and encouragement from her husband and both her and her husband's families.
In 2009, Ms. Ngoc Lam and Mr. Thanh Hieu got married. For over 15 years, Mr. Hieu has always supported her in completing her university program and participating in many courses and training programs to improve her skills in all aspects. When talking about her husband, Ms. Lam's eyes light up with happiness. Ms. Lam confided: "I feel lucky to have a husband who always cares for and supports me in my work, shares household chores, and takes care of the children. My happiness comes from the fact that my husband and I give each other the best things, starting from very simple things, such as caring about each other's meals and sleep; treating each other sincerely; doing housework together, taking care of the children... These things may be small, but they help strengthen our marital bond." During the initial stages of opening her banh tet (Vietnamese rice cake) bakery, Ms. Lam also received great encouragement from her husband. Seeing his wife's hard work, Mr. Hieu proactively took on the responsibility of designing the brand labels, advertising, and delivery... From mutual understanding and care, Ms. Lam's family has become even more loving and close-knit.
After more than 10 years of marriage, Ms. Bich Ngoc and her husband, residing in Cai Rang district, have two beautiful and adorable children. Ms. Ngoc is a doctor, and her husband is a lecturer at a university. Both share the belief that they should continuously strive for self-improvement and career advancement. Ms. Ngoc said: “My husband and I are pursuing a second university degree and doctoral studies to enhance our qualifications. To balance family and career, we have decided to share household chores. Every day, after work, my husband readily helps me cook meals and clean the house… Even when I’m away, he can handle everything, big and small. This allows me to focus on my work and studies with peace of mind.”
Ms. Lan Anh, residing in Ninh Kieu district, also finds happiness in her husband's care and support in all aspects of her life. Ms. Lan Anh recounts: “Previously, I worked as an accountant at a small company. Since giving birth, I quit my job to stay home and take care of the household. After more than six years at home, I longed to go back to work and improve myself. So, when my child was older, I decided to study bartending and cooking to start a coffee shop. At that time, both sets of parents strongly opposed it, fearing I wouldn't be able to manage everything. Only my husband enthusiastically encouraged me and even drove me to training centers.” For over a year now, the coffee shop has been operating and has a stable customer base. Despite being busy, Ms. Lan Anh is very happy to have a husband who understands and shares her burdens, and to have additional income to support the family. “Every day, after work, my husband makes sure to come home early to help me take care of the children. When he has free time, he also doesn't hesitate to come to the shop to work as a parking attendant or deliver goods to customers. This support gives me more motivation to keep trying,” Ms. Lan Anh confided.
These stories and circumstances are all different, but they share a common thread: the happiness of having a partner who supports and accompanies one's personal development. According to psychologists, family happiness is built and developed on respect, equality, responsibility, companionship, sharing, and love between husband and wife. In many cases, women who have husbands with open minds and who support their wives' personal growth find their married life more harmonious and happy. Simultaneously, regardless of their position or job, women should always be the ones "keeping the flame alive," fulfilling their roles as wives and mothers. This is also a crucial foundation for building a happy home.
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