Your child is a remarkable person but chances are you don't know it. Therefore, you have not nurtured your child's talent properly, leading to him losing his abilities, causing him to become a normal child.
In fact, there is no need to wait until their children become adults, parents can notice signs of intelligence in their children from an early age to promptly nurture them:
1. High IQ children often stare at things they like for a long time
To evaluate whether a child has a high IQ or not, parents should observe whether the child can concentrate while studying and playing. Normally, when children are under the age of 5, most parents are concerned about whether their child is healthy or not and pay little attention to the child's other skills because they think this stage is too early.
A child's ability to concentrate will develop gradually over time, however, for children with high IQ, through daily activities, they will clearly reveal their intelligence. For example, children often stare at things they like or concentrate and patiently complete a game without any outside interference.
The more concentrated a child is, the more intelligent he or she will be when he or she grows up.
2. High IQ children like to ask questions
Some children always have thousands of why questions in their minds. Every day they wonder about everything and constantly ask their parents. Scientific studies show that children learn an average of 81 words a day before they turn 2 years old. From 2 years old onwards, children's language and observation abilities develop strongly, asking a lot of questions is a good sign for brain development, helping to form positive thinking and creative habits.
Not only are they "obsessed" with the question why, when receiving the answer, many children will not feel satisfied and find their own way to get the answer. This shows that their brains are always highly active, often observing and paying attention to many things around them. The period of 3-6 years old is also the period of peak brain development for children. Children with high IQ will show unusual curiosity and discovery.
3. High IQ children often argue back
There was a survey about “What do you hate most about your children when they grow up?” shows that children talking back is a problem that causes headaches for more than 75% of parents, surely parents who have experienced it all feel it deeply!
Most people think that "talking back" is disrespectful to parents. But have you ever thought that this is a sign of cognitive development, starting to have the ability to think and evaluate on your own?
When children begin to have their own views on understanding and perceiving things, no longer blindly following their parents, and to express their own opinions and thoughts, they can take an opposing stance. with you. This may be difficult to accept, but is actually part of a child's development.
Of course, the child's personality and emotional state can also cause the child to talk back. If the behavior of talking back is too frequent or affects the parent-child relationship, it is necessary to communicate with the child to understand. the child's true intentions and feelings, and problem solving.
4. Children with high IQ have flexible limbs
Children who exercise a lot also tend to have higher IQs, because body activity also requires the brain's help to move the limbs and other parts when the body is moving.
If a child's arms and legs are very flexible and they can walk and crawl earlier than their peers, it means their brain is very smart. If your child has athletic talent from a young age, this means that their intelligence is no less.
For children with normal intelligence, if parents want their children to become smarter, they can improve their child's intelligence through other methods such as teaching their children to draw and playing with their children. Add games that require the mind or use hands and feet...
Under the right care and nurturing of parents, children's brain, body and language systems can be rapidly improved. From there, it can improve children's IQ.
5. High IQ children like to draw graffiti
Have you ever experienced the feeling when your family's clean wall is painted with "ghost symbols"? That's really annoying! Although it is said that art originates from life, in front of children who like to draw graffiti everywhere, it is really impossible to look directly at their "art cells".
But there is scientific research that proves: Children who like to draw graffiti when they are young will have an IQ at least 5% higher than normal people, and they will often have imagination, thinking ability, and ability. Express yourself better than your peers.
Around 2 to 3 years old, children will enter a sensitive period with painting. During this stage, children like to express their emotions with images and colors. If your child likes to draw graffiti, it shows that he or she has a rich imagination, creativity, and good artistic talent.
Of course, if you don't want your walls and furniture to be labeled "art medals", then arrange a graffiti wall for your children, and prepare a drawing board and some drawing tools for them.
6. High IQ children do not like to talk
"Look at other people's children's mouths, they greet everyone obediently when they meet them, but my children just go into their room when they see someone and never say a word!". It's true that shy children are unpopular, but is it really an "unforgivable crime"?
Child education psychologist Dien Hoanh Kiet once highly appreciated shy children. Shy children are not like extroverted children who are friendly to everyone, but they have more energy to pay attention to people around them, and their sensitivity to their surroundings and people is also higher.
Of course, parents need to clarify the reasons why children do not like to talk. If you are simply shy, but can remain polite when meeting people, neither self-conscious nor arrogant, then there is no need to worry or blame too much.
If the child suddenly becomes uninterested in talking, his personality changes greatly, then it is necessary to communicate more deeply with him. Find out if anything happened to your child that hurt or shocked them.
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