In this story, the wife is both pitiful and blameworthy.
Mr. Ngo Tuan (32 years old, China) was working away from home when he received a phone call from his wife, Ms. Truong Hong Ha (29 years old, China), with the good news that she was pregnant for the second time.
Before that, they had a baby girl. However, he calculated the time and found it unreasonable, so he quickly asked for leave to go home. Seeing that her husband was still suspicious, Ms. Truong angrily said: "This child is yours, I gave birth to your child, but you still doubt me?"
The child's true origin
Eight months later, Ms. Truong gave birth to a healthy baby boy, and the family considered it had both a boy and a girl. Mr. Ngo Tuan and his mother-in-law took good care of Ms. Truong, and the family was extremely happy.
However, what Truong Hong Ha never expected was that her husband actually took their son for a paternity test. The test results were as he thought, the boy was not his biological child.
Faced with questioning from her husband and family, Ms. Truong initially refused to accept the results. But when faced with the DNA test results, she had to admit that the child was not actually Ngo Tuan's biological father.
In fact, during the time her husband was away from home working, Truong Hong Ha developed feelings for Ma Minh Hieu, the director of the factory where she worked. He was a married man, 51 years old. After a few meals and conversations, Truong and the director had an affair and not long after that she discovered she was pregnant.
The first person she told this news to was Ma Mingxiao. This man was very scared and asked her to abort the baby, but Zhang Hongxia refused. Director Ma could not hide this from his wife either. For the sake of her family and children, his wife chose to forgive her husband and gave Zhang Hongxia 40.000 yuan (about 142 million VND) to abort the baby.
Unexpectedly, Truong Hong Ha took the money but still refused to abort the baby and lied that it was Mr. Ngo Tuan's child. When he found out, Mr. Ngo could not believe it and did not understand why his wife betrayed him like that. At that time, Ms. Truong Hong Ha cried and said: "I did all of this because you forced me."
Mistake after mistake
Mr. Ngo often works far away, when he comes home he just stays at home, doesn't care or ask about his wife and children, and spends most of his time playing games. Once, his wife even scolded him a few times and he "kicked and punched" her.
Although Mr. Ngo later apologized and promised never to lay a hand on his wife again, she had completely lost faith. For the sake of her daughter, she chose to forgive her husband. However, she went to Director Ma to confide in him, to pour out her feelings, and even agreed to have a relationship.
Mr. Ngo could not accept this reason and wanted a divorce. However, Truong Hong Ha absolutely did not agree. Moreover, at that time, his mother was suffering from rectal cancer. Ngo Tuan did not want his mother to worry and affect her health, so in the end he decided not to divorce but the child had to be raised by his biological father. After a while of arguing, the two sides finally reached an agreement.
However, just a few months later, Ngo Tuan discovered that his wife and the other man were still seeing each other. He was extremely angry. He decided to divorce and did not want to live with this woman anymore.
Interim
Ngo Tuan may not be a good husband. Like Truong Hong Ha said, he doesn't do housework, likes to play games, doesn't care about his wife and children, and even beats his wife. These things can make a woman feel insecure.
However, no matter how many mistakes a husband makes, how bad he is, that is not a reason to have an affair, or even give birth to a child for another man. Truong Hong Ha chose to "take revenge" on her husband in the most thoughtless way. As a result, not only did she not feel satisfied after getting revenge on her husband, but she also had to bear increasingly greater burdens, even affecting her entire life.
Instead, Truong Hong Ha could have properly declared the end of her marriage because her husband was not worthy. Then, when she was no longer bound, she had the right to choose her own life, and no matter which choice she made, she should have stayed away from married men who still wanted to be promiscuous like Ma Minh Hieu.
Thuy Anh
Sources: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/vo-co-bau-8-thang-da-sinh-con-chong-lang-lang-di-xet-nghiem-adn-ket-qua-tra-ve-dung-nhu-du-doan-ban-dau-172241106151322757.htm