I am the earth, you are the tree

Book Flower in the Heart - young author Nhat Diem

With the book “Hoa tam no” (published by The Gioi Publishing House in 2024), author Nhat Diem lit a candle. It is a gentle and warm light so that those who are still immersed in the darkness of their lives can light up a ray of hope.

Before touching the book "Hoa tam no" by Nhat Diem, I had read many psychology books, and understood that when you encounter problems, you cannot open up a path for yourself if your feet stay in the same place.

But, it is not your feet that are at fault, everything that is delayed is due to your mind. When your mind is constrained, your view of everything, every development in life, is negative and ugly. Old, dilapidated thinking holds back all changes. And then, good things never have a chance to appear.

Nhat Diem is a consultant on love, marriage, and family. The more you encounter, the deeper your understanding becomes. Nhat Diem has picked up quite a few useful lessons to help her see through the nature of many problems in life.

She pointed out that failure is not scary, but it also brings opportunities for self-correction: “There is no such thing as failure, it is all just feedback from the universe.” Suffering is not brought by others, but by not loving ourselves enough.

When our mind is narrow, the love we express is also limited and the love we receive is also insignificant. This life is only truly meaningful and happy when we give: love, tolerance, understanding, sharing... without asking for anything in return.

I like this sentence in the book the most: “I am the earth, you are the tree. Don’t force the leaves to be green when the earth is still dry.” If you don’t choose to be gentle with people and life, then why can’t life be gentle with you? The world around you is a reflection of the energy radiating from you.

We are only truly happy when our minds are nourished by positive things. And happiness is contagious. If you pay attention to the children who are radiant with happy smiles on their faces. I assure you that the parents of those children are happy people. Because in this world, there is no child who can be happy when their parents are always struggling with worries and sadness. No child can smile if their parents are always immersed in arguments, winning and losing and crying.

With a gentle writing style, Nhat Diem brings a source of peaceful and pleasant energy. The whispers of encouragement through 20 chapters of the book will be a support for you to have the motivation to change your mind in a positive direction, to see things more deeply but also calmly accept and gently resolve them with the love in your heart. The flower of the soul will bloom when you open your heart to receive everything with a peaceful mind, without sadness.

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