What should students do?

Schools are like a microcosm of society with many complex factors that affect students' psychology. Just starting her first year, Tran Phuong Dung, a student at the Ho Chi Minh City University of Foreign Trade, confided: "During high school, I was ostracized by my classmates because of my unattractive appearance. Even now, in university, a new environment, I still feel insecure and lack the courage to make friends."

Dung said that despite having a not-so-positive past that left her with many traumas, the female student is still trying every day to break out of her own safe shell.

As a student transferring from Japanese Studies to Journalism, Dang Nguyen Thanh Truc (a student at the University of Social Sciences and Humanities, Ho Chi Minh City) faced many difficulties in getting to know her new classmates. "Because I joined the class later, I was initially quite shy seeing everyone already familiar with each other. Every day I would sit in a corner at the back of the classroom, with no one to talk to or do homework with, which made me feel very discouraged," Truc confessed.

Students should mentally prepare themselves beforehand to have a less overwhelming experience when entering university.

The biggest challenge for the female student was finding a study group. Most students already had groups and were quite hesitant to add a new member. Gradually, this led her to consider dropping out of school.

Truc's introverted personality is also a weakness in her communication skills. While she considers herself sociable, the student is happy when someone approaches her to strike up a conversation. "However, I rarely initiate conversations with strangers. I'm trying every day to improve that," Truc hopes.

Viewing the university as a second home.

However, not everyone experiences a "nightmare" when they first enter university. Many students see it as a second home where they can let loose and be their truest selves.

"My biggest motivation for riding my motorbike more than 15 km every day is to see my university friends. If I don't talk to them for a day, I feel suffocated and uncomfortable!" shared Khanh Linh (a student at the University of Social Sciences and Humanities, Ho Chi Minh City). This is probably a common reason why most students enjoy going to school.

Khanh Linh worked in communications for an event organized by her class.

Linh said that at home, she usually only has her grandparents and parents, but it's different at school. Linh is lucky to have found friends who can understand and share everything in life. Being friends with whom she shares similar interests, Linh sometimes forgets that she's a third-year university student and about to enter the real world.

Beyond finding joy in friendships, the university environment is also a breeding ground for many talents through extracurricular activities such as clubs, teams, and volunteer campaigns.

For example, Ly Ai My (a third-year journalism student at the University of Social Sciences and Humanities in Ho Chi Minh City - Head of the REC Media Club) couldn't hide her happiness when she and the club raised a large sum of money to organize the "Lighting Up the Highlands" program, helping disadvantaged people in remote areas.

Furthermore, school activities not only provide students with unforgettable experiences but also hone essential soft skills such as public speaking, communication, and teamwork, which are very practical for their future. For Ai My, every day at school is a different joy. Going to school helps My become more active, make many new friends, and most importantly, gives her memorable experiences during her student life.

Practice developing a habit of positive thinking.

According to psychologist Dang Hoang An (former lecturer at Ho Chi Minh City University of Education), adapting to a new environment depends on many factors.

"The structure of the brain dictates each person's personality differently. Extroverts adapt more easily, while introverts and those who are less talkative will have more difficulty integrating into a new environment," Mr. An shared. In addition, external factors such as changes in daily routines, new lifestyles, and new friends are also common obstacles that students face when entering university.

According to Mr. An, students should prepare themselves mentally to minimize the initial shock. "Change your mindset, don't put pressure on yourself, think of any environment as an opportunity to learn knowledge and culture from your friends and teachers. From there, accumulate knowledge as a foundation for entering society," Mr. An advised. In particular, a positive attitude is a crucial quality that needs to be cultivated.

Integration is not a one-day or two-day affair, but a long journey that requires the support of both family and school, according to Master Hoang An. Schools should not leave students "swimming" in a sea of ​​information, but should create clear and specific information and guidance. At the same time, students should explore their strengths and weaknesses to join the right clubs and experiential activities that they enjoy.

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