I like being alone, not afraid of loneliness

Living alone is a special ability

Many people have long wondered why at this age, Ly Nha Ky still hasn't gotten married. Let me ask you a question, are you tired of being single?

Most people look at a person who is not in love and will implicitly understand that they are lonely. But then again, I am not alone. For me, once I am lonely, even if I am with a lover and surrounded by people, I still feel lonely, it is not a matter of having a lover or not.

At the age of 41, Ly Nha Ky is still not married.

Why doesn't Ly Nha Ky love anyone?

Being single doesn't mean I have to find a lover and always think about love. There are many things in life to enjoy. Some people focus on their career, some focus on their passion, on themselves, some people prefer to hang out with friends...

Time alone is when we can listen to ourselves the most, understand ourselves the most, and not be swept away by love or a lover.

Financially independent, talented and beautiful, when did you learn to live alone?

Living alone is truly a special ability. People who know how to live alone, enjoy and create values ​​from this life still feel happy just like living "with many people". But few people understand that.

Of course, living alone does not mean completely not socializing or connecting with anyone. On the contrary, people who choose to live alone like me have very rich activities, a wide network of communication, and friends and partners all over the world .

However, their ego is strong enough not to rely, not to depend, not to entrust their happiness, sadness, hope, disappointment… to others. They are completely proactive in their lives. They are the captains of their own life ship.

Will not choose someone who only knows how to say love

What do you think about marriage and couple life?

Marriage must originate from love, and at the same time be the source of marital happiness, a harmony of both soul and body. Only true love can have a happy marriage.

Ly Nha Ky's villa. Photo: Zing

But we should not be absolute, love is sometimes not rosy. Because when in love, the person involved is often not objective, even being attracted to the point of infatuation, not seeing the contradictions that outsiders can see.

The so-called love at first sight does not always help people meet the right person to decide to stick with for life.

Marriage is respected because it is not simply the union of two people of two genders into a couple, but also carries a much higher mission, which is the responsibility to family and children.

What is your view on a happy marriage?

When two people enter marriage, there will be things that they are not satisfied with and cannot get along with each other. But if the couple communicates based on the spirit of trying to understand and respect each other, their feelings will always be full.

A happy marriage cannot be achieved by just one person. It is the result of efforts from both sides, understanding and respect.

What kind of man would have to be to meet your criteria?

For me, life has no formula. Men are the same! Many people say I need a talented, stable man, but women can also get rich.

Instead, women should choose a man who makes them feel safe, respected, and in tune. Don't choose someone who only says he loves you, choose someone who respects you, that is lasting love.

Don't give up for love

Do you think many young people want to come to you but they are hesitant because you are talented and rich?

Actually, there are many men who love and conquer me, but I don't respond, not because they are bad. On the contrary, they are too perfect and talented, so they are not suitable for me.

But there are also men standing in front of me who are not confident in their knowledge, finances or popularity. They are not confident in walking with me. What I need is more emotion.

Are you willing to love a young and poor man?

There is no set criteria for choosing a husband. Some women like to marry rich men, because they think that material comfort is a form of happiness. But there are also women who are willing to marry poor men, as long as he loves and cares for them.

No matter what criteria you use to choose a husband, women should remember that: a man's wealth or poverty does not determine your happiness. A rich man who looks down on his wife is worthless. A poor man who makes his wife shoulder all the worries is just redundant.

Happiness or suffering, joy or sadness, it all depends on fate. A woman who marries a man who loves and protects her for life is desirable, that is true happiness.

As a woman, you must first live for yourself. No matter how rich your life is, don't let yourself go or give up because of love. Women don't need a man who can say anything, they need a man who can do anything.

Back to reality, are you still single or do you have a "short term" or "long term" boyfriend?

I'm not very good at short term relationships, once I figure out what I really need.

Besides emotions, my love is very rational. I always have a clear view of the future of my love. Most of the people who cannot go all the way with me are because they do not understand my soul...

When your ex-boyfriend settled down, did you feel insecure?

As an adult, no matter how sad you are, you should still wish your ex happiness when they find the right person. But I also don't care too much about your ex's life, what each person needs to do is focus on what's happening in the present.

It's not that I'm trying to be strong, but honestly, I find my single life quite okay. I don't find that my time is too abundant to welcome loneliness.

Being single but not feeling lonely, always happy and loving life is difficult, we can do it, it proves we are not ordinary, right?

Thanks!

Ly Nha Ky, real name Tran Thi Thanh Nhan (born July 19, 1982), is an actress and businesswoman. She is widely known for her role as Diem Kieu in the TV series "Beauties and Tycoons" (2008). In 2011, she was appointed as the first tourism ambassador of Vietnam.

According to the South China Morning Post (2022), Ly Nha Ky's assets are estimated at about 17 million USD (nearly 385 billion VND). She is also the owner of a Ferretti 360 yacht worth 4.4 million USD (nearly 100 billion VND), a Rolls-Royce Ghost worth 1.8 million USD (more than 40.7 billion VND) and a Jaguar F-Type R Convertible worth about 500,000 USD (more than 11.3 billion VND).

Source: https://www.baogiaothong.vn/ly-nha-ky-toi-thich-mot-minh-va-khong-so-co-don-192231222095126765.htm