Valuable support

I was born and raised in Binh Phuoc in the arms of my grandparents and uncle and aunt. My parents separated when I was just over 2 years old. At that time, my mother had to leave home to work to earn money to take care of me. When I was in 10th grade, my mother remarried. Even though we did not live together, the bond of motherly love was still strong and complete. My mother was present in every step of my journey, regularly asking about me through every video call, every text message, every reunion.

Entering the university gate in Ho Chi Minh City, I used to think that leaving the familiar home was also a normal thing. Everyone has to grow up and be independent. I thought I would adapt quickly to the new life. The first days passed quickly in the busyness of studying, getting to know new friends. But at night, in the empty rented room, so much love and nostalgia rushed back. I missed my aunt who was always understanding, always listened and encouraged me. I missed the warm calls of my grandparents, missed the family meals. I missed the trust, advice and expectations of my uncle: "Only studying is the fastest way to success". I was supported, taught, protected by people who, although not born to me, still loved me with all their hearts. That love and deep influence helped me to be more confident in moving forward.

Dieu Hien (in white shirt) with her uncle, aunt and cousins

The computer has now become a close friend. It is not only a means of learning but also a repository of memories, a bridge connecting me to my hometown. The computer wallpaper is a photo of the whole family together - a rare happy moment that I cherish like a treasure. In the photo are: mother, grandparents, uncle and aunt with bright smiles.

Every time I turn on my computer, I look at that photo for a long time to let the warmth spread in my heart. I learn to turn emptiness into motivation. Just seeing familiar faces on the screen every day makes me more confident to move forward. No matter how difficult it is, I will not be discouraged when there is a peaceful sky behind me to take refuge in. I cannot disappoint my mother's expectations - who, despite being busy with her own life, always follows my every step. I cannot disappoint my uncle and aunt when they have spent their entire youth guiding me. I cannot make my grandparents sad. I try my best to return home one day in the near future with the pride of the whole family, not only with a bachelor's degree but also with a better version of myself and an endless gratitude for my family.

I think young people don't need to be "busy" all the time to be good. The important thing is to know how to organize properly so that each day is meaningful, maintaining health, spirit and motivation to continue trying.

The writer (right cover) sets a family photo as his computer wallpaper to remind himself to always have companionship, creating conditions for him to develop in accordance with his interests and abilities.

Source: https://nld.com.vn/diem-tua-quy-gia-19625051020501687.htm