I was born and raised in Binh Phuoc, cared for by my maternal grandparents and uncles and aunts. My parents separated when I was just over two years old. At that time, my mother had to leave home to work to earn money to take care of me. When I was in 10th grade, she remarried. Although we are not physically close, the bond of motherly love remains strong and unwavering. My mother has been present every step of the way, regularly checking in through video calls, messages, and reunions.
Stepping through the gates of university in Ho Chi Minh City, I initially thought leaving my familiar home was normal. Everyone has to grow up and become independent. I thought I would adapt quickly to my new life. The first few days flew by in the hustle and bustle of studying and making new friends. Yet, at night, in my empty rented room, a flood of memories and longing came rushing back. I missed my aunt, who was always understanding, always listening and encouraging me. I missed the warm voices of my grandparents, the family meals together. I missed the trust, advice, and expectations of my uncle: "Only through education is the fastest path to success." I was supported, taught, and protected by people who, though not my biological parents, loved me with all their hearts. This deep affection and influence gave me the confidence to move forward.

Dieu Hien (in white shirt) next to her uncle, aunt, and cousins.
My computer has become a close friend. It's not just a tool for learning, but also a repository of memories, a bridge connecting me to my hometown. My computer wallpaper is a family photo – a rare moment of happiness that I cherish like a treasure. The photo includes my mother, grandparents, uncle, and aunt, all with radiant smiles.
Every time I turn on my computer, I gaze at that photo for a long time, letting the warmth spread through my heart. I've learned to transform emptiness into motivation. Just seeing those familiar faces on the screen each day gives me the strength to keep going. Even in difficult times, I won't give up, knowing that behind me lies a peaceful haven. I can't let down my mother's expectations – she, despite her busy life, always watches over my every step. I can't disappoint my uncle and aunt, who have dedicated their youth to guiding me. And I certainly can't make my grandparents sad. I'm working hard so that one day, not too far in the future, I can return to the pride of my family, not only with my bachelor's degree but also as a better version of myself and with an unceasing gratitude for them.
I believe that young people don't need to be constantly "busy" to be considered successful. What's important is knowing how to manage their time effectively so that each day is meaningful, maintaining their health, spirit, and motivation to keep striving.

The author (right cover) sets a family photo as their computer wallpaper to remind themselves of the support and encouragement they receive, allowing them to develop according to their interests and abilities.
Source: https://nld.com.vn/diem-tua-quy-gia-19625051020501687.htm






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