You have a habit of blaming others and making yourself the victim in every situation. You say you're not good at school because you lack talent and resources. You're late for work because your house is far away. You feel inferior to your friends because you don't have strong support... It seems you always find reasons to blame others. You complain online, you're listless and miserable in social gatherings, lamenting your fate for bringing you together with undesirable people and situations. At first, your family and friends comforted and encouraged you. Later, they felt pity. But over time, they became afraid. They opened their phones early in the morning and saw you complaining about this person and cursing at that person. Therefore, everyone deliberately avoided you. Life is already busy and difficult; if they have time to go online, everyone wants to read positive information, and friends only manage to find time to eat together and share updates.
Everyone faces their own challenges in life, especially young people who are in the stage of studying and working to find their place and assert themselves. But instead of complaining or blaming others, many choose to remain silent to reflect on themselves, assess their surroundings, and find ways to overcome them. Each time they appear, they are cheerful, optimistic, and in control of their own lives. This doesn't mean that young people must "keep" their problems to themselves. Share with family and friends to relieve pressure, receive appropriate advice and help, but ultimately, only you know what to do to achieve the best results. There are only 24 hours in a day; instead of wasting time thinking negatively, sharing unhappy feelings online, and spending hours just waiting for superficial and empty encouragement, go out and play sports , study, expand your network, and learn from others' experiences.
Attract those around you with positive energy. Youth brings many challenges that help us grow. Therefore, stop complaining, don't blame others, and instead view everything around you as normal life challenges. Stay calm and confident in overcoming them; success lies ahead.
QUE LAM
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