Leading up to Vietnamese Family Day (June 28th), Nghe An Newspaper and Radio & Television recorded heartfelt sharing from exemplary families representing different regions of the province about their journey in building a happy home in today's fast-paced life.
1. Mr. Luong Ba My (born in 1988) - Pung Village, Muong Tip Commune: “Don't let phones steal away family conversations; don't let the struggle for survival diminish family bonds!”

As a family of the Thai ethnic group living in the high mountains, my wife and I's lives revolve around farming, growing vegetables, selling groceries, and providing various services to make ends meet.
In mountainous areas, there are times of good harvests and times of bad harvests, and sometimes floods and landslides cut off roads, making business difficult. But when husband and wife know how to share and encourage each other, any difficulty can be overcome.
While families in mountainous regions used to worry about food and clothing, today they face a different challenge: social distancing within their own homes. Smartphones and social media offer many conveniences, but they also cause family members to spend less time talking and listening to each other. Often, relatives sit next to each other, but each person is engrossed in their own screen.
Therefore, my family always tries to keep dinner as a time for togetherness. The children study far away and only come home on weekends, so when we gather around the table, everyone puts aside their work to share stories about their studies, their businesses, and village news.
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We agreed not to use our phones during meals so we could focus entirely on each other. These seemingly simple conversations became the thread that helped us understand and bond with each other even more.
What I want my children to understand is this: don't let phones steal away family conversations; don't let the demands of life diminish family bonds. Happiness doesn't lie in grand things, but begins with daily care, shared meals, sincere inquiries, and the love and support among family members.
Mr. Luong Ba My
My wife and I always hoped our children would understand that, although people in mountainous areas may not be wealthy in material terms, our family has always strived to ensure our children receive a proper education and become useful members of the family and society.
We mountain people have always believed that: when the home is peaceful, the village is happy; when the village is happy, life is prosperous and joyful. That is also something my family always strives to preserve and pass on to future generations.
2. Ms. Nguyen Thi Thuy Huong (born in 1982, Block 12, Ha Huy Tap Street, Vinh Phu Ward): “Happiness is not a destination, but a journey of building it together!”

My family is a family of civil servants with three generations living together under one roof. My wife and I have two children; one is studying at university, and the other is attending Phan Boi Chau Specialized High School.
For me, the most precious thing about a multi-generational family is togetherness, the opportunity for generations to love, share, learn from each other, and together preserve the good values of the family.
Life isn't always smooth sailing. There was a period when our two children were young, our parents were elderly, my husband was frequently away on business trips, and I had to commute dozens of kilometers to work. The days when the children were sick, the stressful work, and the continuous family crises were significant challenges for us.
However, it was love, unity, and belief in the value of family that helped the whole family overcome those difficult times together and preserve their home intact as it is today.
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In raising our children, we always prioritize companionship over imposition. Parents spend time listening to and talking with their children every day, setting a good example through their actions, and encouraging effort rather than focusing solely on achievements. Children are guided to be independent from an early age, learning to share household chores and take responsibility for themselves. We also always respect our children's differences, avoiding comparisons so that they can develop according to their own abilities and personalities.
To maintain intergenerational connection in the digital age, my family has established "family rules," dedicating time to talk, eat meals, and spend time together. In addition, we maintain shared activities such as short trips, family gatherings, or simply doing household chores together. Most importantly, each member must listen sincerely, respect differences, and regularly express love and gratitude to their loved ones.
We always believe that happiness is not a destination, but a journey we take together every day!
3. Mr. Hoang Van Lam (born 1975), Yen Binh village, Quynh Anh commune: “The more loss we experience, the more we cherish family ties!”

I am the eldest son in a family of three siblings. While I was a student at the Signal Corps Officer School, I lost both my father and my mother. These early losses made me more mature, helped me understand the value of family ties, and instilled in me a sense of responsibility towards my family. Perhaps that's why, throughout the years, I have always strived to be a reliable support for my wife and children.
Currently, my small family has four members. I am a retired army officer, my wife is a middle school teacher. My eldest daughter is in college, and my youngest son has just finished elementary school.
In my opinion, the secret to maintaining family happiness is understanding and compromise. Everyone experiences stress and fatigue at times in life, so they need to be listened to and have their feelings shared. Shared meals and everyday conversations, though simple, are the bonds that connect family members.
My family went through many hardships, especially during my time in the military. Being away from home frequently meant my wife had to shoulder all the family responsibilities. My salary was limited, our young children were often sick, and life was full of pressure.
But in every situation, my wife and I always encouraged each other to persevere, discussing and working together to overcome difficulties. I believe that it was this unity that helped our family overcome challenges and maintain our happy home to this day.Mr. Hoang Van Lam
In raising our children, my wife and I always prioritize setting a good example through our actions. We don't focus on academic achievement but rather guide our children towards self-reliance, independence, honesty, and responsibility. What makes us most proud isn't their grades, but the fact that they know how to love their family, strive for success, and live decent lives.
To maintain the bond between generations, the most important thing is to spend time together. Care that comes from the heart is always more meaningful than any material gift.
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From my family's story, I've come to realize that happiness isn't something grand. Happiness is built on love, respect, and companionship among family members. For a man, beyond the responsibility of providing for the family, it's even more important to be a strong emotional support for his loved ones.
Source: https://baonghean.vn/giu-lua-yeu-thuong-duoi-nhung-mai-nha-10342130.html






