“No one is perfect, everyone is different. Instead of trying to change each other, we should find a way to understand and share with each other so that married life becomes lighter," said actress Lan Phuong.
In conversation with PV People intellectual, actor Lan Phuong plays Ngoc Ha movie My family is suddenly happy for the first time revealed the reasons why she was loved by her 2-meter-tall husband. Two of them are innocence and independence.
"Husband laughs because there are many scenes of Ha like me"
Many people think that every time Ha appears, the atmosphere of the film is stirred. But there are also opinions asserting that the appearance is one color, boring. What do you think about this? Do these conflicting comments affect you?
– I don't think Ha's character is one color, boring. If there is such an opinion, it may be because the audience has only watched the first episodes of the series. The scriptwriter built a family of 4 women, which means that there are 4 different colors, from appearance to personality.
With Ngoc Ha, she has outstanding personalities such as cheerful, lovely, positive, emotional, so she does it too often.
I really like the character Ha, because she always has a different way of facing and solving problems. It was positivity that helped Ha turn serious problems into lighter ones.
As an actor who has played many types of roles on screen, I am not too surprised or worried when I receive compliments and criticisms from the audience. Moreover, the character Ha is full of brilliant colors, sometimes a bit dazzling, but the audience needs time to get used to and accept her. Therefore, it is understandable that there are many streams of opinions from the audience.
I always listen and receive such feedback in the most positive way. For negative comments, I will collect them to improve the character. It was the audience's opinions that helped me accumulate more of my living capital as well as a more multidimensional perception in my roles.
Do you share that Ha in "My family is suddenly happy" helps me freely express my real-life personality into the character?
- That's right. I am quite similar to Ha in a youthful and humorous personality. My husband also laughed and said that there are many segments of Ha in the film that are very similar to me.
The difference between me and Ha is that I won't worry too much about things that don't concern me, and make things simpler for others to find a more effective solution. And Ha likes to listen to things, sometimes inferring and exaggerating the problem.
This is the second time she plays the daughter-in-law of People's Artist Lan Huong. How are your feelings?
– I feel closer to her. In this movie, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also fun, not stressful like Love the sunny day. Because there are many scenes together, the two girls have a chance to talk more.
Huong and I are both professional actors, so the coordination is easy and good. Moreover, she is a good and experienced actress, so this continues to be a good opportunity for me to learn.
What about the reunion with Doan Quoc Dam?
– Actually before, in the movie Love the sunny day, most of us only met in a few scenes so the movie My family is suddenly happy This is the first time that Doan Quoc Dam and I have had the opportunity to act together.
I think this is one of the very interesting experiences. Quoc Dam is a good actor, creative, flexible improvisation. When acting together, the two easily caught each other's emotions and had good coordination.
The parents-in-law are wonderful and very psychological
In real life, Lan Phuong does not live with her husband's family. After playing the role of Ha in "My family is suddenly happy", do you think one day you will return to live with your husband's parents?
– I think, if every family is like in the movie, it would be great. That's when every member is sincerely attached to each other. I love how strangers meet each other and become friends.
They build a family with love, care and care for each other. That is really appreciated.
Many times I thought: “What would it be like to live with a husband's family like this? Will I be able to adapt?” .However, because I have been used to living independently since I was 18 years old. Moreover, my wife and I have been living separately since the beginning, so I still don't have the same intention as you say.
I can't predict the future, just know that now both my husband and I are treating each other with the most sincerity and love.
Can you share a bit about your husband's parents?
– I really admire the love of grandparents. I still remember the first time I met my husband's parents, even though they were on the street, they always held hands and never left each other. When she watched TV, he would massage her legs because her legs hurt after many years of working as a cook. Whenever there is a problem, grandparents always yield and sympathize with each other.
In addition, they are also great fathers and mothers, psychologically. Calls from my husband and his parents often go on for a long time. He confided to his grandparents everything from work, family to social relationships.
To the children, my father-in-law is like a "big friend". My daughter loves him so much! She always considers him number one in her heart and also imitates his actions.
It can be seen that she is very pampered by her husband. Although she and her husband have differences in nationality, culture and language, they always keep the flame of happiness. What is your secret?
The first is independence. Women when independent in life will be an attraction for men. Second, I still have the silhouette of a child, with simple, innocent and good thinking.
From the day they fell in love, he always tried to do everything possible to take care of his wife. In addition, he also shared that he was always impressed with my concern for people in difficult circumstances.
My wife and I also have a lot of disagreements, especially when I do business. The pressures of starting a business, filming, and taking care of children at the same time with different views caused me and my husband to have many controversies. Busy work also makes us spend less time together.
However, recently, my wife and I have found a balance and shared more with each other. I can't predict the future, just know that now both my husband and I are treating each other with the most sincerity and love.
"My husband and I always give each other sincerity and openness"
What makes you feel the most love in your husband? Do you want your husband to change something?
– He is a very good husband. He doesn't mind anything, as long as it's right and brings happiness to his family.
With my work, he is always respectful, never jealous if he sees me acting in emotional scenes. Of course no one is perfect, everyone will be different. Instead of trying to change each other, we should find ways to understand and share with each other so that married life becomes lighter.
Do you trust your husband completely?
For me, in this world, nothing is absolutely certain. I always look at life from different angles. My husband and I always give each other sincerity and openness. The most important thing to me is the present, how to make the present the best, and today will be better than yesterday. That's how my life works.
In modern life, many people cannot afford to spend time with their children. But following Lan Phuong's personal page, it can be seen that she shares a lot of clips with her daughter. How do you divide your time so that you can both work and accompany your children?
– The birth and upbringing of a child requires a lot of love and responsibility from parents. I always want my child to have the best development in terms of thinking, feeling, and movement. Therefore, I spend a lot of time observing him, paying attention to each stage of his development in detail.
No matter how busy I am, I always find a way to take care of my children. If he comes home from work and he falls asleep, I will observe how he lies, how he sleeps. In the morning, I also spend some time to hug my child, capture his attitude and feelings with everything around, as well as feel his feelings for me.
In my free time, I take my kids to play. Mother and daughter share everything with each other whenever possible.
I am always patient with my child's feelings and questions, explaining gently to him. Thanks to that, Lina listened carefully and remembered what her mother said for a long time.
Does your husband interfere in your child's education?
- At first, yes. For example, when he was only 1,2 or XNUMX years old, when he saw me teaching him to sleep or how to keep him clean, he gave his opinion. But after seeing the positive results from my son, he fully supported my teaching method.
Currently, we agree on how to raise children.
With a dynamic and flexible actor like Lan Phuong, the environment in the South will be more suitable for her to develop her career. Why did you decide to live and work in Hanoi? Do you regret this decision?
– I have no regrets. The only reason to go to Hanoi is that my husband works here. I don't take time to regret it because it doesn't offer any better value.
Instead, I will try to do the best I can to create new opportunities. And the fact is that I have had many good results both in my personal life and in my career.
I think I really have a predestined relationship with Hanoi. Although I lived in Vung Tau, Ho Chi Minh City since childhood and married a foreign husband, now I live with a small family in Hanoi - where I was born.
When I went to Hanoi, it was also the time when TV series was thriving with good films, so I also had better opportunities.
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Content: Huong Ho
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