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If it were me, I wouldn't allow it.

Báo Gia đình và Xã hộiBáo Gia đình và Xã hội01/03/2025

Perhaps the price to pay is too high!


The youngest son inherited all of his father's property, making him the wealthiest man in the village.

* A story about brotherhood and inheritance is being shared by a Weibo user and is attracting attention. The user says it's a story from a family in a village, and they were surprised by how much it garnered on social media.

The family of Mr. Ha Duc in my village in Shenzhen, China, was one of the wealthiest households in the village. Mr. Ha Duc and his wife ran a local agricultural business and owned several plots of land. However, perhaps fate doesn't grant everyone everything, as the family experienced several conflicts and sought medical help because Mrs. Ha only gave birth to daughters, and Mr. Ha, being the eldest son, held strong patriarchal views.

Ông lão U70 tìm đến nhà chị gái để xin 1 bát cơm trắng mỗi ngày, lý do sống nghèo khổ khi về già bỗng khiến số đông giận dữ:

From the moment his son was born, Mr. Ha Duc was determined to hand over all his assets to him. (Illustrative image.)

It wasn't until Mr. Ha was 50 years old, when Mrs. Ha became pregnant with their sixth child, a son named Ha Thanh, that the family held a big party to treat their neighbors.

This youngest son was very spoiled; he was driven to and from school by chauffeurs and got whatever he wanted. He was also intelligent and bright, but his overly protected lifestyle made him spoiled.

At the age of 20, Ha Thanh was still carefree, mostly staying at home eating, sleeping, going out, and spending money.

Mrs. Ha passed away many years ago, and Mr. Ha is now 70 years old. His business has been shrinking over the years... But he still has one workshop and two shops in the village, bringing in a considerable income.

Of Mr. Ha's five daughters, one is unmarried while the other four are settled down. However, all five only occasionally return home due to strained relationships with their father.

Mr. Ha was known in the village for his preference for sons over daughters. Even though his family was wealthy, he refused to give his daughters money to go to university, saying it would be "throwing money away."

Therefore, when he made his will and passed away, he left all his property to his youngest son. At this time, the son was 30 years old and had been married for two years.

Inheriting existing assets and receiving support from his wife, the business flourished and generated significant income.

At this time, following the advice of some friends, Ha Thanh invested in a business. Initially, it was profitable, but later it resulted in losses... Each time this happened, Ha Thanh's competitive nature would surface, and he would vent all his frustrations on his wife and children.

Even when he was making money, he didn't treat his wife with any respect, always being cold and distant. This was partly due to the influence Ha Thanh had when she went out to eat and drink with her group of friends.

They mocked Ha Thanh for letting his wife be in charge of the business, requiring her permission even for investments.

Reportedly, before his death, Mr. Ha Duc instructed his son to let his daughter-in-law manage the business, perhaps because he sensed his son's instability.

Furthermore, Hạ Thành's wife also gave birth to three children, all of whom were daughters, which made him unhappy.

According to the neighbors, My Lam, Ha Thanh's wife, was married into a wealthy family but always looked very sad and haggard.

On good days, everything is fine, but as soon as he suffers business losses, Ha Thanh starts yelling at his wife and children, accusing them of being unlucky and freeloading because he's rich.

It wasn't until Ha Thanh was 50 that My Lam decided to divorce him, because by then their children were grown and she felt exhausted both physically and mentally. And of course, Ha Thanh immediately agreed; his pride made him feel he would lose face if he continued to hold on.

After the divorce, in her old age she had to go to her sister's house to beg for food.

However, after the divorce, Ha Thanh's life spiraled downwards. The factory shrank due to declining business, to the point where it had to close down because workers quit due to Ha Thanh's excessive demands and delayed wage payments.

Furthermore, due to his lack of credibility, he gradually lost all his business relationships and spent his days drinking.

At the age of 68, his factory and two businesses suffered serious losses and had to close down. He then plunged into gambling and drinking, accumulating a considerable debt.

At this time, Hạ Thành listened to some new friends he had met at the bar who advised him to sell his land to raise money to restart his business or live a life of leisure.

Because land prices are very high right now, Ha Thanh owned three valuable plots of land. However, he was cheated by this very friend, losing everything and only receiving 23,000 yuan (approximately 80 million VND).

Without any documents or evidence to prove his identity, Ha Thanh fell into poverty, penniless.

Ông lão U70 tìm đến nhà chị gái để xin 1 bát cơm trắng mỗi ngày, lý do sống nghèo khổ khi về già bỗng khiến số đông giận dữ:

Illustrative image.

In his old age, he owned a house but was on the verge of homelessness due to overwhelming debt. He also had no relatives because after his divorce, his wife and children moved to another city. At this moment, he suddenly remembered his five sisters, with whom he hadn't been in contact for many years. But now, being so poor he couldn't even afford enough food to eat each day, Ha Thanh had no choice but to go to his sister's family in the neighboring village to ask for food – a bowl of white rice was all he needed to get through the day.

His sister had passed away, but his children and grandchildren were still alive. They agreed to give Ha Thanh food, but they couldn't really help him because, when he was still successful, Ha Thanh didn't value his relatives at all. Whenever they came to ask for his help, he would always show annoyance and criticize them in various ways.

Everyone in the village knew Ha Thanh's story, passing it on to each other as the price he had to pay. Ha Thanh, once one of the wealthiest men in the village, had become a beggar, living a lonely life. He spent his days begging for food on the streets, and his nights sleeping outside the factory – the only place not yet seized due to debt, as it was in a sparsely populated area and had been the subject of much gossip and slander.

After the story was shared on social media, it attracted a lot of attention. Many comments praised similar experiences, with some saying they had gone through even more tragic situations. Some people suffered even more, going insane or becoming seriously ill at the end of their lives without the money for treatment or anyone to care for them. “That’s truly a lesson for everyone, about how to raise children, how to treat wives and children, and how to treat relatives. Above all, it’s about how to live true to yourself. Because he lived in such a sheltered environment for so long, only knowing how to enjoy life, Ha Thanh developed that personality and those habits. There’s a saying: Sow a habit, reap a character; sow a character, reap a destiny,” one netizen commented, attracting high interaction.

Tran Ha.



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