The Truth About Single Men in Their 40s

A 40-year-old unmarried man is still considered strange. (Photo: ITN)

However, a 40-year-old unmarried man is still considered strange. In fact, the reason is very simple, unmarried men at this age are often rumored to be... "weak".

40 year old single man can't see himself objectively

If a man is not married at the age of 40, then in the eyes of others, he is considered to have... problems, namely, he cannot clearly recognize himself and cannot accurately measure his own value, thereby affecting the relationship between marriage and love. As a result, he cannot find a suitable position for himself.

They have the illusion that they are good enough, so when choosing a partner, they will not choose a woman with similar circumstances to themselves.

They also cannot be compatible with women who are worse off than them. Instead, they will only continue to look for women who are better off than them.

However, the above theories are not true for all. Most single men in their 40s actually have high self-esteem, so they miss out on opportunities to find a partner time and time again, eventually ending up in the group of... "leftovers".

40-year-old single man and "mysterious mental illness"

Just because a 40-year-old man is unmarried doesn't mean he has never experienced love. (Photo: ITN)

From a scientific perspective, unmarried men at the age of 40 tend to suffer from a mental illness known as “cryptic psychosis.”

The reason why they have “mysterious psychosis” is actually due to their own life experiences. They often have sensitive personalities and are conservative when dealing with women.

Because their conditions are unfavorable, they want more, so they want everything under their control. That is also the reason they receive a lot of criticism.

Single men in their 40s can't forget their exes

Men 40 years old not married does not mean they have never experienced love, but often this love experience has a great impact on them, maybe they will never forget it for the rest of their lives.

Obviously, women do not easily accept a man who is always reminiscing about the past. In fact, very few women can love such a man, so marriage for men in this age group becomes even more impossible.

Of course, those who have loved deeply find it hard to forget their ex. For single men in their 40s, old memories sometimes resurface even though they claim that those feelings are buried deep in their hearts.

Even when he meets a new relationship, he will not be able to restrain the habit of comparing with his previous girlfriend. The comparison will gradually develop into harsh criticism.

Like “Why can't I do this?”, “Why can't I do that?”, “Why can't you love me like she does?”...

Faced with such questions, if it were you, would you accept it? Perhaps most women cannot accept it!

If they keep holding on to the illusion of their ex-lover, single men in their 40s need to accept the reality that they are not competitive enough in the marriage "market".

Simply because they cannot treat their partners equally, cannot wholeheartedly devote themselves to a new relationship, and are even very picky about their partners in every aspect. This is certainly unacceptable to most women.

Experts give a suggestion to unmarried older men, that is to actively change their image and temperament, give up some unrealistic illusions and live seriously to have their own love. Surely every bit of your love and sincerity will bring you happiness.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-ve-dan-ong-doc-than-tuoi-40-172240908204826817.htm