The truth about single men in their 40s

A 40-year-old unmarried man is still considered unusual. (Photo: ITN)

However, a 40-year-old unmarried man is still considered unusual. The reason is actually quite simple: unmarried men of this age are often rumored to be... "frail."

Unmarried men in their 40s cannot view themselves objectively.

If a man is still unmarried by the age of 40, he is perceived by others as having... a problem, specifically an inability to clearly understand himself and accurately measure his own worth, thus affecting his relationship with marriage and love. As a result, he cannot find a suitable place for himself.

They have the illusion that they are good enough, so when choosing a life partner, they won't choose a woman with a similar background to their own.

They also cannot be compatible with women who are in worse circumstances than themselves. Instead, they will only continue to seek out women who are in better circumstances than themselves.

However, the above theories don't apply to everyone. Most single men in their 40s actually have high self-esteem, so they repeatedly miss opportunities to find a partner, ultimately ending up being classified as... "eligible bachelors".

A 40-year-old unmarried man with a "mysterious mental illness"

Just because a man is 40 and still unmarried doesn't mean he's never experienced love. (Photo: ITN)

From a scientific perspective, unmarried men in their 40s tend to suffer from a mental illness known as "mysterious psychosis."

The reason they suffer from "mysterious psyche" is actually due to their own life experiences. They often have sensitive personalities and tend to be conservative when dealing with women.

Because their circumstances are unfavorable, and they want more, they want everything to be under their control. That's also why they receive so much criticism.

Single men in their 40s can't forget their exes.

A 40-year-old unmarried man doesn't necessarily mean he's never experienced love; rather, these experiences often have a profound impact on him, perhaps even lasting a lifetime.

Clearly, women don't easily accept a man who constantly dwells on the past. In fact, very few women can love such a man, making marriage even more impossible for men in this age group.

Of course, those who have loved deeply find it hard to forget their exes. For single men in their 40s, old memories occasionally resurface, even though they claim those feelings have been buried deep in their hearts.

Even when he finds a new partner, he won't be able to resist the habit of comparing her to his previous girlfriend. This comparison will gradually escalate into harsh criticism.

Questions like, "Why can't you do this?", "Why can't you do that?", "Why can't I love you like she does?"...

Faced with such questions, would you accept them? Most women probably wouldn't be able to accept them!

If single men in their 40s cling to fantasies about past relationships, they need to accept the reality that they are not competitive enough in the marriage "market".

Simply put, they are unable to treat their partners equally, cannot fully commit to a new relationship, and are even very picky about partners in every respect. This is certainly unacceptable to most women.

Experts offer advice to older, unmarried men: actively change your image and demeanor, let go of some unrealistic illusions, and live seriously in order to find love for yourself. Surely, every little bit of love and sincerity you show will bring you happiness.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-ve-dan-ong-doc-than-tuoi-40-172240908204826817.htm