The truth about single men in their 40s

A 40-year-old unmarried man is still considered strange. (Photo: ITN)

However, a 40-year-old man who is not married is still considered strange. In fact, the reason is very simple, men at this age who are not married are often rumored to be... "weak".

40 year old single man can't see himself objectively

If a man is not married at the age of 40, then in the eyes of others, he is considered to have... problems, namely, he cannot clearly recognize himself and cannot accurately measure his own value, thereby affecting the relationship between marriage and love. As a result, he cannot find a suitable position for himself.

They have the illusion that they are good enough so when choosing a life partner, they will not choose a woman with similar circumstances as themselves.

They also cannot be compatible with women who are worse off than them. Instead, they will only continue to look for women who are better off than them.

However, the above theories are not true for all. Most single men in their 40s actually have high self-esteem, so they miss out on opportunities to find a partner time and time again, eventually being classified as... "leftover".

40-year-old single man and "mysterious mental illness"

Just because a 40-year-old man is unmarried doesn't mean he has never experienced love. (Photo: ITN)

From a scientific perspective, unmarried men in their 40s tend to suffer from a mental illness known as “cryptic psychosis.”

The reason why they suffer from “mysterious psychosis” is actually due to their own life experiences. They often have sensitive personalities and are conservative when dealing with women.

Because their circumstances are unfavorable, they want more, so they want everything under their control. That is also the reason they receive a lot of criticism.

Single men in their 40s can't forget their exes.

40 year old unmarried men does not mean they have never experienced love, but often this love experience has a huge impact on them, maybe they will never forget it for the rest of their lives.

Obviously, women do not easily accept a man who is always reminiscing about the past. In fact, very few women can love such a man, so marriage for men in this age group becomes even more impossible.

Of course, those who have loved deeply find it hard to forget their ex. For single men in their 40s, old memories sometimes resurface even though they claim that the feelings are buried deep in their hearts.

Even when he meets a new relationship, he will not be able to restrain the habit of comparing with his previous girlfriend. The comparison will gradually develop into harsh criticism.

Like “Why can't I do this?”, “Why can't I do that?”, “Why can't you love me like she does?”...

Faced with such questions, if it were you, would you accept it? Perhaps most women cannot accept it!

If they continue to cling to the illusion of their ex-lover, single men in their 40s need to accept the reality that they are not competitive enough in the marriage "market".

Simply because they cannot treat their partners equally, cannot devote themselves to a new relationship, and are even very picky about their partners in every way. This is certainly unacceptable to most women.

Experts give a suggestion to unmarried older men, that is to actively change their image and temperament, give up some unrealistic illusions and live seriously to get their own love. Surely every bit of love and sincerity will bring you happiness.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-ve-dan-ong-doc-than-tuoi-40-172240908204826817.htm