8 sentences parents should say to help their children grow up knowing how to build good relationships

(Dan Tri) - American psychologist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish said that what children hear and see from their parents will have a huge influence on how they build relationships later on.

According to expert Tracy Dalgleish, parents' words have a huge impact on shaping how children behave in relationships as adults.

The sense of peace, warm connection and sense of responsibility that parents show in family life will teach children the first lessons in how to build good relationships.

Below are 8 sentences that parents should often say to their children so that they have the first concepts about how to express love properly:

Parents need to teach their children the skills to build and maintain good relationships from a young age (Photo: CNBC).

“Each person thinks in his own way. We don't have to be the same.”

Disagreement does not mean a rift. Many people make the mistake of trying to convince others to see things the same way they do. However, even the closest people can see things differently. True love is when we respect each other’s perspectives and do not demand that they see things exactly the same way.

“Do you want me to work with you to find a solution, or just listen?”

Many adults struggle in relationships because they don’t know how to show concern for their partner’s needs. Simple, direct questions like these help us address the issue effectively.

When your child comes to you with a problem, ask clear questions to understand their needs. Your child will feel respected and empowered. At the same time, your child will learn to reflect on their own needs and how to show concern for the needs of others.

“I'm sorry for getting angry...”

To show sincerity and honesty when apologizing to your child, parents should clearly recognize where the problem lies and what they will do next time to avoid a similar situation from happening again. For example: "I was so angry that I didn't stop to listen to you thoroughly. Next time, I will slow down, take a deep breath, and try to stay calmer."

“What you just shared is very interesting, thank you.”

This statement helps children feel important to their parents. In fact, everyone longs to be heard and appreciated. When parents show genuine interest in what their children share, children will clearly feel their place in their parents' hearts and learn to open up to others.

“I feel overwhelmed, so I need to rest for a while. I'll get back to you.”

This quote teaches children that everyone has times when they feel overwhelmed, and it's okay to take a break to recharge.

Learning to communicate positively when we are overwhelmed is essential to maintaining healthy relationships. Many people tend to “explode” when they are overwhelmed. But only by setting limits and communicating proactively to clearly express their needs can parents help their children learn to regulate their emotions and behaviors.

“Parents are very happy to have you in their life”

Many parents often assume that their children “understand” the love they have for them. However, when parents clearly express their love, their children will also clearly feel their place in their parents’ hearts. Teaching children how to express their feelings is helping them gain important skills to build good relationships in the future.

“I know this is important to you. But I need a minute, and then we can talk about it, okay?”

This statement teaches children to respect the needs of others. Not being able to meet their child's needs all the time teaches them an important skill about how to cooperate in a relationship.

“Can I hug you? I think you need a hug.”

Try asking your child's opinion before giving a hug, this will both deepen their sense of parental care and show respect for them.

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