Going on trips and traveling together helps to strengthen the love and connection between Kim Cuong's family members. Photo: NVCC
The recent April 30 holiday of Ms. Kim Cuong's family - a teacher in Ninh Kieu district, was complete with an interesting trip to Cat Tien National Park. During the trip, the couple took the opportunity to teach their two children about nature, survival skills... Ms. Kim Cuong shared: "I have two children, Ngoc Minh, 18 years old and Nhat Minh, 14 years old. Every year, taking advantage of long holidays or summer, my husband and I often take our children on trips combined with sports activities: cycling, jogging or participating in practical activities so that they can both gain more knowledge about life and relax".
Usually during the trips, in addition to sharing practical knowledge about the places and history of the destination, Kim Cuong and her husband train their children to be independent, aware of self-care as well as proactively respond to difficult situations. For example, they inform their children about the schedule and weather so that they can prepare their own clothes and necessary items for activities... According to Kim Cuong, creating a close-knit family atmosphere through common activities is very important, not only helping parents understand their children better but also being able to promptly advise and correct their children. She always encourages her two children to continue walking with their parents every night and doing housework with them. No matter how busy they are, her family still eats together, often goes to the movies, and visits their grandparents. She also teaches her children about compassion by participating in charity activities, collecting old clothes and books to donate to people in difficult circumstances...
Sharing about how to raise children, Ms. Ngoc Tran in Ninh Kieu district, believes: “Each child has a different personality. Parents are the most important people in shaping and guiding their children's personalities. I have a 10-year-old son. He is very stubborn and often disobeys his parents. Understanding that this is the age when his personality and character are gradually forming, I always try to accompany and be close to him. Knowing that my son likes to draw, I often buy crayons and draw funny pictures with him. If there are any beautiful pictures, he will happily show them to his grandparents and ask me to keep them.” In addition to drawing, Ms. Tran always tries to spend time with her child participating in outdoor activities, supporting her child in doing creative exercises at school, such as making cards, making model houses from ice cream sticks... increasing closeness and positive interaction with her child. According to Ms. Tran, in the current era of digital technology development, these activities not only help strengthen family ties but also help children develop necessary skills.
Sharing how to help children grow up, Ms. Bich Ngoc in Cai Rang district said that parents' behavior and attitude greatly affect their children. For many years, Ms. Ngoc has been busy selling at the market and has little time for her young son. She leaves her son's education to the teachers at school, and she leaves it to a motorbike taxi to pick him up and drop him off at school. Every day, her family members only meet each other at dinner. After a quick dinner, everyone goes back to their own work.
Ms. Ngoc said: “When Quan was 13 years old, I realized that my son was becoming more and more distant, talking less and less with his parents, and his studies were declining. To force him to study, I often scolded and beat him. However, the more I forced him, the more counterproductive it was, my son became more and more rebellious and distant from me.” Listening to advice from many people, Ms. Ngoc proactively changed herself, being more patient with her son. She tutored her son in his studies, giving him words of encouragement and motivation. Along with that, she spent a lot of time talking, taking him out to play, exploring nature on weekends, encouraging him to help with housework... Thanks to that, the mother-son relationship became closer. Now, her son often shares with his mother about school and class.
According to psychologists, with the explosion of information technology, children today are more knowledgeable and have the opportunity to access a lot of information. Therefore, parents need to change, adapt and use appropriate methods to be friends with their children. No matter what method is applied, the most important thing is still care and understanding. By putting themselves in their children's shoes, parents need to spend time caring, talking and understanding their children in a loving spirit to create a good environment for children to grow up, helping family affection become warmer and happier.
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