Having a famous MC husband, at the age of 30, Miss Ngan Anh is still diligently studying for her PhD.

Once called 'Miss Sister', now student says: 'Thank you'

- How has your Master's journey at the University of Salford changed your thinking and career orientation?

My journey to study for a masters degree at the University of Salford, Manchester really broadened my horizons. When I graduated at the age of 24, I simply thought I would start a business. But deciding to become a university lecturer and do management work was the most important turning point.

After 5 years of accumulating professional experience and observing the actual operation of educational units, my wife and I started building a specialized educational model for skills and languages from the end of 2024.

I have been studying for a PhD at Tomas Bata University, Czech Republic since July 2025. During this time, I have been doing coursework (major subjects and elective subjects) and writing my first scientific papers under the guidance of my professor. After 6 years of not sitting in school as a student, I had to adjust my mindset about dedication, perseverance and reallocating time to prioritize studying.

- As a young lecturer who has been under pressure from public opinion, do you have any message for young people when facing criticism on social networks?

Having faced arguments on social media, I know how it feels to be hurt by strangers’ judgments. But I’ve learned that you don’t need to prove your worth to everyone – especially those who only see you through a few seconds of video or a context-reduced status.

Social media is a necessary part of modern life, but it shouldn’t be the defining tool of who you are. If you receive constructive feedback, listen to it and improve. But if it’s pointless criticism, don’t be afraid to turn it off. Mental health is more important than responding to comments. Posting content online is quick, but real value takes time.

For students, I encourage them to develop critical thinking, to be kind but also to have the courage to defend themselves. In the age of hyper-connectivity, knowing how to filter information, verify sources and ask questions is an essential life skill.

- How has your outlook on life and choice of friends changed after the scandals? How has the beauty queen title affected your career?

My past experiences have taught me a valuable lesson: stability does not come from the spotlight but from inner calmness. I no longer seek external validation, instead I invest in healthy relationships, prioritizing working with people who share the same frequency, life values and goals.

The title of Miss gave me many opportunities to gain attention. But the goal of conquering knowledge and the way of working seriously and responsibly helped me maintain the memory and respect of colleagues, students and company companions.

- What memories during your teaching career helped you affirm yourself beyond the halo of beauty?

The most touching moment at the graduation ceremony was when students - who had previously only seen me as a "beauty queen" - said: "Thank you for making me believe that I deserve to dream bigger" or "Thanks to you, I have the confidence to apply for a master's degree abroad!". That was when I knew I had overcome the image of a "beauty queen" to become an inspiration for learning.

Melting hearing my child say 'I love you mom and dad'

- How do you and your husband - MC Phan To Ny prepare to build a suitable life to raise baby Tino?

image 02 680.jpg — Family of Ngan Anh, MC Phan To Ny and son Tino.

We both believe that happiness begins with preparation. Before welcoming Tino, my husband and I sat down and discussed the division of responsibilities, measured our financial health, and balanced our schedules so we could still have time for each other.

We bought a bigger apartment, designed a separate room for the baby, bought things in a minimalist and safe way. In the past 20 months, I have meticulously taken care of Tino's eating, sleeping, and health issues in a scientific and appropriate way for his developmental milestones. To Ny is better at patiently playing with the baby and teaching him to explore life.

- What about To Ny makes you feel most secure in his role as husband and father?

I feel most secure in his sincerity, kindness, responsibility and the fact that he always prioritizes time for his family despite his increasingly busy work schedule.

Since they fell in love, Ny expressed that he would be very happy if there was a mini version in the family. When he had Tino, he always put the health and happiness of his child first, not afraid to learn about first-time fatherhood tasks such as changing diapers, learning about formula milk, and developmental milestones to accompany his child without causing pressure.

Now Tino is more aware, he also "prefers" calling dad more than mom when he needs something or wants to be comforted (laughs).

- After giving birth, how did you adapt and what plans do you have to help your child develop comprehensively in the first years?

I'm a perfectionist so I prepared by reading books and learning how to become a mother with a strong mentality - from eating scientifically, keeping a relaxed mind to building a reasonable schedule.

But in reality, in the first months, I felt like I was living in a "new universe" - my biological clock changed, my priorities changed, and even my perspective on myself changed. In return, I learned to find joy in the little things and remember every milestone: the first time my baby laughed, rolled over, sat up, took his first steps, and most heartbreakingly, the first time he said "I love you, Mom and Dad!".

Since Tino was 3 weeks old, I have actively let him interact with music to develop his emotions, do exercises to develop fine and gross motor skills, and most importantly, talk a lot to help him develop language and feel love. Luckily, Tino is now healthy and slightly ahead of the standard development milestones.

- What challenges do you face when balancing management, teaching and your roles as a wife and mother?

The biggest challenge is learning how to allocate and recharge my energy between each role. There are days when I work, teach, continue studying in the evening, and still come home with my laptop to tackle the backlog of work.

I learned to prioritize and set rules: each role requires full presence. At school, I devote myself to my students and my work, and at home, I put my phone aside to play and read to Tino before bed. It is a promise to my husband that no matter how busy I am, I will spend 2-3 hours a day interacting with my child, always prioritizing Tino's health and happiness.

I also learned how to ask for help: from my husband mentally and financially, from my grandparents to take care of Tino, from my colleagues to support me with work instead of taking on everything myself.

Miss Ngan Anh is currently studying for her PhD and teaching, her MC husband is an editor at Ho Chi Minh City Television Station.

- As a modern woman with many roles, how do you define success and happiness?

To me, success is not about achieving many roles, counting the number of jobs or income, but about maintaining the steadfastness to do well and maintain integrity in each role.

Happiness is now simpler. It is the evening when the whole family goes out to eat together, Tino's humorous smile, when my husband and I tell each other stories at the end of the day. That feeling is not flashy but enough for me to know that I am living according to the most important thing - peace in my heart and full love around me.

Le Au Ngan Anh wishes her husband a happy 35th birthday:

Photo: FBNV, video: NA

Miss Le Au Ngan Anh and her famous MC husband happily celebrate Tet . On her personal page, Miss Le Au Ngan Anh shared that her life and her MC husband have changed a lot after welcoming a new member.

Source: https://vietnamnet.vn/hoa-hau-ngan-anh-va-chong-mc-tan-chay-vi-cau-noi-cua-con-trai-moi-20-thang-2431964.html