GĐXH - It is undeniable that the living environment will indirectly affect our luck. Because, the environment we live in and the friends we choose will directly affect our future.
The following six types of people will affect your luck. Limit contact to prevent future troubles and harassment.
1. Only think about your own interests
This type of person only cares about how the new relationship will benefit them but never learns how to give.
They will use their own painful stories from the past to make the other person willing to help. In the long run, they take the help and kindness of others for granted.
This type of person only cares about what benefits the new relationship will bring but never learns how to give. Illustration photo
2. People who gossip
Some people just can't seem to live without spying on others and then taking the initiative to tell others.
Constantly listening to rumors or fake news only brings negativity and negatively affects your perception of life.
In addition, they will also carry your story, creating rumors to tell others.
After all, the main purpose of most gossipers' conversations is to get information and continue spreading rumors.
3. The person who "says Nam Mo with his mouth but uses a dagger with his hand"
In communication, respect and praise are beautiful actions that help increase trust and affection for each other.
However, if someone always flatters and compliments, you should reconsider lest you bring disaster upon yourself. These people, their mouths are always "sweet", always say nice words, preach morality to others but behind their backs they do evil, surprising things.
At first, you feel like you are living in the clouds, like you are "brainwashed" by their kindness. Gradually, over time, you soon realize the unrealistic things about that person and this friendship.
Their sweet words will make you lose your guard, if they want to push you into a wrongful situation, it's as easy as turning their hand. At that time, resentment and hatred won't do anything, you can only blame yourself for being too "foolish".
In fact, many people fall into miserable situations because they mistakenly trust their "friends" - those who are hypocritical and malicious flatterers around them. Therefore, you need to be vigilant and maintain a distance from people with this personality to avoid falling into danger.
If they are near you, you must find a way to avoid them to keep your luck.
Their sweet words will catch you off guard, if they want to push you into an unjust place it's as easy as turning your hand. Illustration photo
4. People who always have a victim mentality
They will never admit their mistakes or take responsibility, but always find ways to blame adversity.
For example, if they can't find a job, they will blame the employer for not knowing how to judge people; their friends will turn their backs on them and say that the other person is a bad person...
This makes it easy for you to become the subject of comparison and gossip if you do something that displeases them.
In case of repeated advice but no success, you should gradually distance yourself and stop this relationship.
5. Complainers
This type of person can easily drain the happiness and energy of the person opposite with a few sentences of conversation.
They are often easily manipulated, following negative emotions and transmitting it to those around them without the victim realizing it.
So, if you often feel bored when talking to someone, it's best to stay away from them.
If you often feel bored when talking to someone, it's best to stay away from them. Illustration photo
6. People who lack self-awareness
It is because of the mentality of blaming and always thinking they are right that these people have difficulty reflecting on their own actions and words.
For example, a person with a toxic personality is not aware of their own mistakes and even has a mindset of denying all advice from those around them.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/6-kieu-nguoi-neu-o-gan-chi-khien-van-may-cua-ban-di-xuong-172241030105744256.htm
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