Goalkeeper Dang Van Lam's wife responds to criticism about her appearance.

The story of goalkeeper Dang Van Lam's wife being subjected to body shaming has received much attention. Photo: Bui Thi Yen Xuan/Facebook.

Bui Thi Yen Xuan, the wife of goalkeeper Dang Van Lam, said that she has often been the target of comments and criticisms about her appearance.

On May 29th, Yen Xuan posted a Story titled "What to do when you're body-shamed?", attracting attention from the online community. She shared the story of an acquaintance who had received insensitive comments about her appearance.

This person wore a crop top when meeting friends and unexpectedly received comments about their waistline, with some saying that no matter how much they exercise, it's difficult to have a beautiful waist because it's a "bread loaf" waist. In response to this tactless comment, the person in the story replied with humor and straightforwardness.

Through the above story, Yen Xuan shared that she also has a lot of experience dealing with criticism about her appearance and wanted to share her personal perspective. According to her, the first thing to do is to accept that everyone has different standards of beauty.

"Accept that you may be considered beautiful or ugly in someone's eyes," Yen Xuan expressed. She believes that it's normal not to please everyone, so one shouldn't worry too much about subjective judgments.

Goalkeeper Van Lam and his wife will get married in 2024 after 6 years together. Photo: Bui Thi Yen Xuan/Facebook.

Dang Van Lam's wife also encourages people to choose a way of responding that makes them feel most comfortable. Instead of avoiding it, she often confronts negative comments directly. "Oh, really? That's right! So what?" is one of the responses she suggests.

Yen Xuan said that in real-life interactions, she is not afraid to express her opinions. According to her, confidence and frankness are sometimes effective ways to put an end to teasing or ill-intentioned judgments.

In addition, the beauty born in 1991 believes that sarcastic remarks can become a motivation to help people improve themselves instead of becoming a source of pressure. "Life is just like that, why be sad?" she shared.

Yen Xuan is currently a fitness trainer. The WAG became widely known after marrying goalkeeper Dang Van Lam in July 2024 after six years together. They welcomed their first son in February 2025.

On social media, she frequently shares about her healthy lifestyle, workout routine, and fitness journey. Her recent posts have received much support from the online community.

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