No one is sure what her original goal was, but when she and her current lover accused each other of their flaws, the online community was fed up.
At first, the singer talked about her past love affair and exposed some other artists, but did not provide any evidence. This incident caused a lot of controversy, affected others, did not benefit anyone, and made the audience waste time and their minds were immersed in negative things.
Not yet satisfied, she started livestreaming with her current lover, exposing all the feelings of boredom and criticism she had.
As a result, she received a summons from the city inspector to clarify the things she mentioned that she had no evidence of. She even put this on livestream to "say goodbye to the audience", and even added "prepare to go away for a year". What a peak of livestream addiction!
The old people used to advise to think twice before speaking. But nowadays, with the need to produce information products and publish easily through personal social media accounts to receive views, shares, likes, it seems that many people forget that advice.
There is a story about the Greek philosopher Socrates: When his neighbor wanted to tell him a story, he asked that before he told him, he answer three questions: Is the story true? Is it a good story? And Will it help anyone?
Even if the worst target is people like the singer who want to heat up their name or polish their image by expressing themselves in public, then in the end, how is her image in the eyes of the majority? Is it more positive, does it make her happier, more relieved, or is it more sad, crying, even pathetic in the thousands of negative comments?
Sharing your thoughts, feelings, or other personal matters on social media will definitely attract the attention of others, at least those around you. If the story is controversial, too rare, too tragic, too upsetting… in general, it must be exaggerated to attract more people.
But whether that will make you famous, rich or get you a job offer from the inspector is uncertain.
The listeners are also smart enough, there are things that really move them, most of which are stories that show the sincerity of the livestreamer wanting to find sharing in the community to overcome difficulties, or to celebrate achievements, ask for secrets to study, work and live...
Last week, an account named RT posted a series of 50 videos about how she was deceived throughout the process of getting to know each other, falling in love, getting married, and getting divorced.
This story went viral on TikTok. Many videos reached millions of views and brought her more than a hundred thousand dollars.
R.'s story can be considered a "good" situation: she herself is famous, has money, and the audience enjoys her captivating storytelling.
In addition, this story does not create a sense of direct harm to others, nor does it cause public outrage.
Stories that are useful to listeners are always needed and useful to the audience. But if you bring the audience into bad stories that don't help anyone and especially aren't true, it's easy to... get offended.
Stop saying bad things for a while, then we can say good things, our words will have more meaning and weight.
Sharing thoughts, feelings, and painful, upsetting things is a human need. But consider when posting on social networks, distinguish between private space and what can be said to the public.
Turn your tongue seven times, then keep quiet. Give positive things, because the one who gives flowers will have fragrant hands.
Do you have any rules for yourself when using social networks? Please share your secrets and stories or those of your loved ones to spread positive lifestyles and become wise users on the Internet. Please send your email to [email protected]. Tuoi Tre Online thanks you.
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