After listening to her child's three questions, she just kept silent.

heartless mother in law

To Ton Linh, her mother-in-law is like a stranger. While she is working hard, staying up all night to take care of her child, her mother-in-law is traveling and posting pictures on social media all day.

Ton Linh just found this mother-in-law ridiculous. When discussing the marriage with her husband, she didn't even want to bring dowry money to force her not to marry her son. If her husband hadn't been so determined, perhaps they would have gone their separate ways by now.

After getting married, Ton Linh tried to be patient with her mother-in-law to keep the family peaceful. But when she learned that her aunt had given birth to a daughter, her mother-in-law did not like it so she left to travel. As for her, having a cesarean section and having to take care of herself and her daughter by herself was extremely difficult and tiring.

Her husband also talked to his mother many times, but she still kept her attitude and refused to change. She even said bluntly: "You have no obligation to take care of your daughter-in-law and grandchildren. Each person should take care of their own children."

Hearing these words, Ton Linh felt so wronged that she cried, but she knew that if she continued to cry, her grandmother would not love her, so she could only grit her teeth and get through it. After the month of confinement, she suffered from many postpartum illnesses.

From then on, Ton Linh never mentioned that matter to her mother-in-law again. She also never asked her mother-in-law for help with anything. As for her mother-in-law, she never paid any attention to her daughter-in-law, and the two rarely saw each other.

Mother-in-law is sick and blames daughter-in-law for not taking time off work to take care of her

Ton Linh thought that her mother-in-law didn't like her so she didn't ask her anything after she gave birth. But when she fell ill, she realized how naive she had been.

When her mother-in-law fell ill, she only visited her a couple of times just for show. The third time she visited, her mother-in-law spoke directly to her husband, blaming her for not taking time off work to take care of her and saying she was an unfilial daughter-in-law. Her husband heard this and blamed her for not respecting his parents. If she had respected them, she would have taken the initiative to help them earlier.

Ton Linh was extremely stunned when she heard that. She did not directly protest her mother-in-law's criticism, but instead asked her mother-in-law three questions.

“When my husband and I got married, how much did you spend on the dowry? When I was in confinement, where did you go? And where have you been and what have you been doing these past three years, while I have been working hard to take care of you?”

Not giving her mother-in-law a chance to speak, she spoke her heart out:

“When we got married, my mother didn’t pay a single penny for the dowry. While I was in confinement, my mother traveled everywhere. Furthermore, my mother hated her niece and always avoided me. How should I treat her?”

Ton Linh's words made her mother-in-law lying on the bed blush and be speechless.

Contrary to her attitude, her husband advised her to forget everything, that it was the past and should not be mentioned again. Besides, she had no responsibility to take care of her grandchild. What should be mentioned was the present, that she was sick now, and if Ton Linh did not take care of her, it would be unfilial.

Her husband's advice was the direct cause of her decision to leave immediately. With a husband like that, no matter how much you talk to him, he still doesn't understand. Seeing his wife suffer so much injustice and only telling her to be patient, he doesn't deserve to be her husband.

Mother-in-law is unreasonable, don't blame the daughter-in-law for being heartless

In this world, there are people who do not know right from wrong but want everyone to treat them with kindness. When the daughter-in-law was still in confinement, the mother-in-law did not care or help her with anything but went on a trip to enjoy life.

Although a mother-in-law has no obligation to take care of her grandchildren, if she is a good mother-in-law, she will help her daughter-in-law. Later, the daughter-in-law will also be filial in return.

People have to rely on each other to live. So, if you are sincere to others, they will remember it forever in their hearts. On the contrary, if you treat others badly, they may remember it for the rest of their lives.

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