Stories from the Vu Lan season: Mending the mother-in-law relationship.

1,001 stories about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Ms. Trang (39 years old, from Nghe An province) still vividly remembers the awkwardness and strangeness of her first days as a daughter-in-law. The pressure of living with her mother-in-law made her gradually become less talkative, unwilling to share or express her personal opinions.

After living with her husband's parents in Hanoi for 10 years, the couple saved up enough money to buy a small apartment so the family could live more comfortably. Trang always kept in mind that "her husband's mother is also her mother," and she tried to reconcile their differing viewpoints.

Living with a mother-in-law but not getting along puts extra pressure on daughters-in-law.

However, after giving birth, her psychological and emotional state changed, and her unstable feelings caused her to lose control and tell her husband, "Tell Mom to go back to her hometown; I don't want to live with her anymore." The words unintentionally reached her mother-in-law's ears. Through the mirror, she saw her mother-in-law speechless, tears streaming down her face. That day, the grandparents insisted on returning to their hometown. Trang knew she had made a mistake and deeply regretted her behavior. During the months without them, Trang realized the depth of her mother-in-law's heart, who always worried about her daughter-in-law and son, who worked hard but lived a frugal life, not daring to eat, dress well, or go out on weekends.

The generation gap and differences in lifestyles, coupled with the fact that both mother and daughter tried to endure the situation without ever speaking up, led to misunderstandings piling up and straining their relationship.

Differences in lifestyle and generation are among the reasons for strained mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships.

Open and honest sharing, understanding each other's feelings.

Understanding his wife and mother's feelings, Hung became a bridge to help Trang and her mother resolve their misunderstandings and encouraged the whole family to have frank discussions and give feedback to each other.

After much persuasion, the parents understood their children's intentions and agreed to return to Hanoi. The 5-6 hour bus journey was a daunting prospect for them, as the buses usually run continuously with few stops, and they were prone to urinary incontinence, fearing they might inconvenience others.

Hearing their parents' concerns, the couple was delighted that their parents had proactively shared their health issues with them. They remembered a friend who had recommended adult diapers – a product for people who can still stand and walk but are starting to experience incontinence problems. They immediately bought the product for their parents and were very satisfied because of its thin and lightweight design, similar to regular underwear, yet still highly absorbent, keeping their parents comfortable throughout the trip.

The couple proactively bought Caryn adult diapers – a product for adults who can still stand and walk but are starting to experience incontinence issues – for parents to use when needed.

Although they managed to bring their parents to Hanoi, the couple still blamed themselves for not paying enough attention to their parents' health, especially as their parents began to experience the natural ailments of old age. With their parents' urinary incontinence issues, Mr. Hung and Ms. Trang proactively researched modern methods to help them live happily and healthily. Besides buying nutritious food and changing their diet and lifestyle, Ms. Trang also stocked up on Caryn diapers for their parents to use when needed.

Both are important women in the family, and despite generational and lifestyle differences, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law can easily understand and empathize with each other by skillfully and frankly sharing all issues.

On the occasion of the Vu Lan festival, Ms. Trang also wanted to convey a small message to all women : "A daughter-in-law is like a daughter in the family. As a family, if there are any problems, everyone should share them honestly. All conflicts can be resolved if members know how to sit down together, discuss, listen, and empathize with each other . Especially, always care for and listen to the thoughts and wishes of your parents to understand what they desire."

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