(Fatherland) - The wedding customs of the Dao Tien ethnic group are not simply a matter of a couple's marriage, but have a greater meaning as the traditional culture of the ethnic group, with its own unique characteristics, carrying many profound meanings,educating about the love between husband and wife, family, and clan.
Performed by: Bao Trung | December 9, 2024
(Fatherland) - The wedding customs of the Dao Tien ethnic group are not simply a matter of a couple's marriage, but have a greater meaning as the traditional culture of the ethnic group, with its own unique characteristics, carrying many profound meanings, educating about the love between husband and wife, family, and clan.
The Dao people in Son La still preserve many traditional customs and practices, especially the rituals that mark the cycle of human life, including weddings. The Dao people believe that marriage has special significance for the individual, family and clan.
Traditional marriage is monogamous with the principle of same-race marriage, exogamy, and after marriage, residing with the husband's family.
The traditional ceremony of the Dao Tien people includes the engagement ceremony (checking the bride's and groom's ages) and 3 main ceremonies: the bride requesting ceremony, the marriage registration ceremony and the bride's marriage registration ceremony, mainly performed at the bride's house.
The Dao people attach great importance to choosing a wedding date and the ages of the bride and groom. If the couple are compatible, the son will occasionally go to the bride’s family to help with the fields, garden, and housework for a day or a few days over a period of 3 days to 3 months, as a way to repay his parents-in-law for raising their daughter to marry him.
This is also the time to wait for the shaman to choose the wedding date and also to see if the bride's family approves of the future groom.
In the past, due to difficult conditions, many families who could not hold a wedding ceremony still went through the procedures for the bride and groom to live together. When they were old and still had not completed the wedding procedures, their children had to organize the wedding for their parents. If they did not, they were considered immature and could not represent other families in the wedding. The couple who were old enough to register their marriage and live together, had children, but still lived with the bride's family until the wedding day.
The groom's family prepares the offerings to bring to the bride's family, placing them in the middle of the house for two shamans to perform a ceremony to report to the groom's ancestors, asking for permission to bring the wedding offerings to the bride's family. The groom's family sends at least 10 men and women to bring the offerings to the bride's family (including the groom), and stay to serve the wedding at the bride's house. The bride's family welcomes the groom's family to sleep, and performs the ceremony of cutting the family register and entering the family register for the bride.
After the ceremony in front of the ancestral altar, the bride officially becomes a member of the groom's family. The family prepares a feast to invite relatives and villagers to join in the fun. While the two families eat together in the yard, the trumpet and drum team continues to come to each table to play songs to invite, wish good health, and exchange thoughts and feelings. When the bride's family leaves, the trumpet and drum team plays the melody to greet and wish the guests a safe journey.
Meritorious artist Trieu Van Theu (Lao Cai) shared: “The wedding ceremony of the Dao people in the Northwest is an important event in the life of each person, each family, and clan, marking the maturity of Dao boys and girls. At the same time, it is a ceremony that brings together the quintessence of Dao ethnic culture such as costume culture, customs, practices, rituals, cuisine, music ... All of which exude the unique and distinct features of Dao culture. In the wedding ceremony of the Dao people, traditional rituals are essentially associated with the humanistic concepts of the people here, which are the desire for happiness in couples, the connection of husband and wife's feelings, and the belief in a bright future."
Source: https://toquoc.vn/doc-dao-tuc-cuoi-hoi-cua-nguoi-dao-tien-20241209105008269.htm
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