Mr. Le Hoang Nam and Mrs. Le Thi Danh (residents of My Thanh commune) proudly wear medals, decorations, and commemorative badges, marking a time of resistance.
Happiness comes from simple things.
For nearly 45 years, Mr. Le Hoang Nam (a disabled veteran, born in 1950, residing in Hamlet 4, My Thanh Commune) and his wife, Mrs. Le Thi Danh (a wounded veteran, born in 1957), have been devoted to each other, understanding and empathizing to build a warm and happy family. Their affection for each other stems from their shared aspirations and past participation in the revolution, making them cherish their simple, happy life, built upon the simplest everyday things.
Mr. Le Hoang Nam and his wife both do housework, without differentiating between their respective tasks.
At the age of 14, Le Hoang Nam joined the liaison service, then worked in logistics, reconnaissance, engineering, and guard duties. Despite serving in various units, Mr. Nam remained steadfast in his resolve to "fight to the death for the survival of the Fatherland." Mr. Nam shared: "At the age of 14, I was too young to be considered revolutionary enlightened, but my patriotism and hatred of the enemy were already burning brightly."
After being educated in revolutionary ideals, I became enlightened and gained the will and motivation to perform my assigned duties well. At that time, I determined that I could sacrifice myself at any moment to protect the Fatherland.”
Like her husband, Le Thi Danh joined the revolution at the age of 14 as a liaison. At 15, she was arrested and imprisoned, appearing in court three times, but was released due to her young age. Afterwards, she continued her revolutionary activities in security work.
Having been tempered with willpower and determination from a young age through their participation in the revolution, after the country was unified, the couple did not shy away from hardship, striving to improve their lives. They had five children (four daughters and one son), and despite the difficult times, they worked hard to provide their children with a good education, ensuring they had stable careers and better lives. Three of their children pursued medicine, one studied sociology, and one joined the police force. Mrs. Dành shared: “My husband and I didn’t teach our children grand principles, but rather taught them what is right and good in life. We encouraged them to study hard and cultivate their knowledge to develop themselves, because knowledge is the ‘priceless asset’ that parents want to give their children.”
During family meals, members often chat and inquire about each other's well-being, thereby strengthening family bonds. This is also an opportunity for grandparents to subtly teach their children through real-life stories or experiences gained from difficult times, so that they may cherish peace and cultivate love for their homeland, especially remembering the sacrifices of previous generations, the heroes and martyrs who fell for the independence and freedom of the nation.
Now that their children are grown and have their own lives, the elderly couple enjoys a simple, warm, and happy life in their humble home. Every day, they work to earn a stable income and provide for their family. Household chores remain the same; whoever is free does them, without distinction. They discuss and agree on all matters, big and small, before making decisions. On holidays, weekends, and special occasions, their children and grandchildren gather together, sharing stories of joy. For them, these simple things are their complete happiness.
Building happiness through respect.
Former couple Dinh Viet Phu and Nguyen Thi Dien (residents of Chau Thanh commune)
“Life is short, so cherish every moment with your loved ones and give them the best,” shared the veteran couple Dinh Viet Phu (born in 1949) and Nguyen Thi Dien (born in 1951, both residing in Tam Hap hamlet, Chau Thanh commune, Tay Ninh province). Despite being married for over half a century, they still love each other as much as they did on their first meeting.
Mr. Phu said that in April 1969, he enlisted in the 12th Battalion of the People's Armed Police Command (now the Border Guard). During a visit home to Yen Lap town, Yen Lap district, Phu Tho province (now Yen Lap commune, Phu Tho province), he visited an acquaintance's house and learned that their daughter, Ms. Nguyen Thi Dien, had also joined the army, serving the revolution, fighting against the US, and saving the country.
Touched by Ms. Dien's courage and dedication to her country, he asked for her unit's address so he could visit her. It was from those brief encounters at Ms. Dien's unit, along with a few handwritten letters expressing their feelings, that a sincere love story began between the two. "Each letter, whether sent or received, served as encouragement and reminders to overcome difficulties and fulfill our duties," Mr. Phu said.
After Mrs. Dien requested to be discharged from the army and returned home, in 1973, they decided to get married. Three children (two sons and one daughter) were born one after another, bringing joy and laughter to their small family.
In 1976, Mr. Phu transferred to the People's Armed Police of Tay Ninh (later the Tay Ninh Border Guard). Back home, his wife single-handedly cared for and raised their children while managing the household. "As a soldier's wife, besides the responsibilities and duties of a wife, I also had to shoulder the role of my husband. It was very hard! But I encouraged myself to try my best and be strong so that my husband could focus on his work," Mrs. Dien confided.
Understanding his wife's hardships, Mr. Phu took time off to compensate her, doing everything himself, from cleaning the house to cooking meals and helping the children with their studies. In 1987, after settling into his job, Mr. Phu brought his whole family to Tay Ninh to start a new life. Although life was difficult in the beginning, the couple worked hard, striving to provide their children with a good education.
The family atmosphere is always harmonious and warm. Currently, all three of their children have grown up, started their own families, and have stable jobs. "To this day, my wife and I feel extremely happy and fortunate that our children and grandchildren are all filial and have good lives," Mr. Phu said.
Currently, even though he has retired, he and his wife still try to dedicate a lot of time to participating in local activities and movements, especially those for veterans. "Now that we no longer have the burden of making a living, my wife and I spend more time together, going everywhere together, and that makes us very happy!" Mr. Phu expressed.
Sharing her thoughts on preserving family values and building lasting happiness, Mrs. Dien said: "Our elders often said, 'When the husband is angry, the wife should speak less; simmer the rice over low heat, and it will never burn.' My husband and I are the same; we always respect each other, share responsibilities, and raise and care for our children together. Parents must set a good example for their children to follow."
Ms. Dinh Thi Hong Nhien, the second daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Phu, said: “We are very proud of our parents. They are role models of hard work and dedication for their children and grandchildren to follow. Inheriting the family's values, I also learn from my parents, living responsibly and caring for others.”
The happiness of veteran families doesn't come from grand gestures, but is nurtured by mutual understanding, respect, and love over the years.
An Nhien - Dao Nhu
Source: https://baolongan.vn/hanh-phuc-binh-di-cua-cuu-chien-binh-a199878.html
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