On March 8th, men are busy searching for expensive gifts to express their affection for their wives, mothers, and girlfriends. But sometimes, what women want most is just a day off.
'A day of doing nothing' is the most popular Women's Day gift for women - Illustration: AI
Many women share that even though they receive flowers and well wishes on March 8th, no one does the housework for them.
The perfect gift for International Women's Day is a truly meaningful day off.
Ms. Nhu Binh (35 years old, Da Nang ) recounted: "Every holiday, I receive a large bouquet of flowers from my husband, but before I can even enjoy it, I have to rush to cook and clean as usual. As soon as I put the flowers down, my child calls for me, and my husband asks me to do this or that. If I could choose, I would only wish for a day when I don't have to do anything, can sleep in, and do what I like."
This year, March 8th falls on a weekend, and on online forums, many women shared that the most meaningful gift they would want is a day of complete rest. They simply wish they didn't have to wake up early to prepare breakfast, clean the house, or rush around taking care of the children.
Being able to sit and enjoy a cup of coffee, watch a favorite movie, or go out to meet friends without interruption is already a source of happiness.
On social media, many clips are circulating showing wives receiving large bouquets of flowers from their husbands, only to have to rush to clean up before they can even enjoy them.
Or the mother is surprised by her son with fireworks and flower petals scattered all over the floor, only to then have to painstakingly clean up the mess all by herself.
These videos quickly gained attention, with many agreeing that "the most meaningful gift for a woman is a day off."
Besides that, there are also women who like to turn March 8th into a special occasion for the whole family to go out together, have dinner, or receive a thoughtful gift.
Ms. Thuy Linh (28 years old, Ho Chi Minh City) shared: "It's true that a full day off makes women feel appreciated, but if they have to rush to clean up afterward, it's even more tiring. The most important thing is not just a day off, but genuine support from family."
If husbands and children share household chores, women will no longer feel like taking a day off comes with double the work afterward. Understanding and support from loved ones is the most meaningful gift of all."
"It's so easy, yet so difficult."
Some men initially think that letting their wives take a day off is a simple matter. But when they have to do everything themselves, they realize it's a real challenge.
Mr. Phuoc Trong (35 years old, Hue City) recounted: "I used to tell my wife to rest and let me do everything. But after only half a day, I was exhausted. After cooking lunch, the child was crying, and the house was a mess. In the end, I still had to call my wife for help. That's when I understood how difficult and thankless the work of women is."
Anh Quoc Bao teaches his son to help his mother with daily household chores, and especially dedicates March 8th to letting his mother rest - Photo: Provided by the interviewee.
Anh Quoc Bao (38 years old, Ho Chi Minh City) believes that to make March 8th truly meaningful, in addition to a small, appropriate gift, he always ensures his wife has a full day off.
"A man's preparation shouldn't just be about words, but also about actions. Don't just say 'you can rest,' but proactively arrange everything, from meals to childcare."
If responsibilities are shared daily, women won't feel overwhelmed and won't need a 'day off' to compensate. Not everyone likes a complete break; some like to go out, some like to receive gifts. The important thing is to understand and meet her needs."
Source: https://tuoitre.vn/mot-ngay-khong-lam-gi-la-mon-qua-8-3-phu-nu-thich-nhat-2025030710294717.htm










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