5 things people with high EQ always keep secret to avoid trouble but people with low EQ 'gossip' to everyone they meet

1. Family conflict

Try to limit the bad news about your family to the outside world. In the adult world , no one is "stupid" enough to help you resolve family conflicts, nor will anyone sympathize with you just because of your complaints.

On the contrary, many of your so-called "friends" are secretly treating your troubles as a joke, bringing them up as a topic for "after-dinner tea and wine". After all, "every family has a difficult book of Revelation to read, every person has a difficult song to sing".

Please limit telling bad family stories outside. Illustration photo

2. Secrets related to money

People with high EQ are always secretive about personal finances.

On payday, do you ever take a photo to show off on social media? When chatting with colleagues, do you ever accidentally or intentionally reveal your savings? At family parties, do you ever brag about how much money you have saved over the years?

I believe most people don't do that, because we all know it's a sensitive privacy issue.

In fact, showing off wealth is an extremely thoughtless act. After all, what people worry about the most is the imbalance. Not many people can calmly face your achievements, they will be jealous, will compare, and even find ways to hinder you.

Boasting about your personal finances may satisfy a certain vanity, but in the process, you have planted a bomb that can blow up your beautiful life in the future.

In some families, people often come to borrow money or are targeted by bad guys. This is often because they have disclosed their finances from the beginning and created opportunities for others to take advantage.

All real-life tragedies remind us that we have to "swallow" the secret of our personal money.

By keeping this secret, you will avoid unnecessary troubles and risks. And only in this way, your life can become more fulfilling.

3. My flaws

There is a saying: "It is difficult to draw a tiger's skin but not its bones. It is difficult to know a person by their face but not their heart." Human nature cannot withstand challenges. When faced with benefits, it becomes extremely weak.

When revealing yourself, keep the principle of saying 7 parts and keeping 3 parts, only then can you protect yourself from unforeseen events.

When revealing yourself, keep the principle of saying 7 parts and keeping 3 parts. Illustration photo

4. Love story

Respect the person you love!

A while ago, a clip from a dating show was circulated online. As soon as a man appeared on stage, 18 female guests turned off the lights and quickly chased him off the stage.

This man is clearly the type of matchmaker that many people prefer because he has both money and power and a successful career.

The reason he met such a bitter end was because he accidentally revealed his private love affair to the public. The obvious contempt and sarcasm in his words about his girlfriend made people clearly see what kind of person he was.

It's not for nothing that people say that only after a breakup can you see a person's truest state.

After all, whether you still love each other or not, you two have spent time together. Now that you are apart, you should not speak ill of or put down the other person. This shows respect for the relationship as well as preserving the last bit of dignity.

Bringing up your own love story (old or not) is disrespectful to the person you used to love and are still loving. Letting others discuss and point out that relationship is even more reprehensible.

5. Show off a lot of money

Don't brag about your wealth in front of others, instead keep a humble attitude. If your salary is 40 million, you should only say 15 million. If your salary is 20 million, you should only say 5 million.

Because jealousy is human nature, in the eyes of acquaintances, you can be good, but not too good. Sometimes, they can accept the success of strangers, but it is very uncomfortable to see the excellence of their relatives.

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