1. Wise people do not gossip
The ancients taught: "Idle hands are the devil's workshop." This saying means that if people have too much free time, they often do bad things, one of which is to amuse themselves with other people's gossip.
Knowledgeable and intelligent people will always cherish their time and not waste time doing useless things. Instead of gossiping about others, they will focus on learning and improving themselves to progress.
A knowledgeable and intelligent person will always cherish his time and not do useless things. Illustrative photo
2. Wise people do not lie
An upright person does not do shady things, an honest person does not tell lies. A wise person is honest and will never do anything that will make his conscience ashamed.
That is why they do not deceive anyone for their own benefit. Because they understand that lies are sometimes not meant to harm others, but to be fun, to boast, but sometimes they can bring disaster upon themselves. Whether the lie comes from good or evil intentions, it creates karma, damages reputation and lowers oneself.
Furthermore, it is very difficult for a person who has lied to stop. Because in order to cover up the lies, the person is forced to pile up more lies. This is like a mud puddle, the deeper they sink, the more they end up sinking into not-so-good outcomes.
3. Wise people do not tell their grievances and annoyances about others.
In this world, there is no shortage of people who like to scrutinize others to complain about things they are not satisfied with.
If you make friends with them, one day, when they feel something is not right about you, they will also talk bad about you behind your back.
4. A wise man does not speak blasphemous, arrogant words.
Living without humility can easily bring disaster. No matter how big or small your achievements are, if you show off, become arrogant, and bully others, you will not be able to receive a good outcome.
A truly wise person will always be on the defensive, never boastful, never reveal themselves, and even give in to others. They are humble and hide their talents but are always respected, praised, and always receive high appreciation from others.
5. A wise man does not speak but does not complain.
Lu Xun once said: "Usually people start complaining, everything will get worse in the direction of his complaining."
Complaining doesn't really help you much. Complaining is like pouring water down your shoes. It will only make you feel worse.
Instead of complaining, you better look at yourself. Instead of complaining about the darkness, you should move forward into the light.
Complaining doesn't really help you much. Illustration photo
6. Wise people do not tell other people's embarrassing stories.
Everyone has embarrassing things that they don't want to tell anyone. If you don't want your bad things to be exposed, it's best not to talk about other people's embarrassing things.
Even if you know other people's shortcomings and private matters, don't casually talk about them. Knowing how to save face for others is accumulating reputation for yourself.
7. A wise man does not boast.
Braggarts are often full of vanity. These people are usually very fond of showing off, but when given the opportunity to show off, they show that they are just empty vessels making a lot of noise.
A truly talented person always maintains a humble attitude. When they are determined to achieve something, they quietly do their work, absolutely not beating the drum to let others know. They understand that talking first is not going to get them ahead.
Instead of being loud and brash, they will work steadily and become a trustworthy person.
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