Making movies about sex life must experience with it?
In the third episode of Story 6 , director Vu Ngoc Dang shared about the story of beauty and his views on choosing actors for the films he produced. Following the male director of the film Sister Sister is director Nguyen Hoang Diep with her frank views on love and sex; she also confided her worries about dating apps and the story of "fear of being a man".
Director Nguyen Hoang Diep talks about filmmaking at Story VI
When mentioning film producer Nguyen Hoang Diep, audiences will surely remember successful films with themes of love, sex, and hot scenes. This has made some audiences doubt the director's experience in this matter.
"People often ask why there are so many hot scenes in my movies, I answer very honestly that they are the coldest scenes in the movies that I can make. People often think I'm playing with words but that's not the case. They also say that director Nguyen Hoang Diep must have had extremely bad experiences with sex or his sex life was extremely abusive to have the tendency to make movies like that," she said.
However, according to the director of the film Flapping in the Middle of Nowhere, the results of the filming do not require the filmmaker to have experience in that matter. At the program, she affirmed: "People often think that films with too many hot scenes and bed scenes require the filmmaker to have experience or need to be guided with those experiences, but in reality, that is not necessary."
According to the female director, love and sex have a terrible destructive power. "When I make films about this topic, I am always seduced and pushed in the direction that I will do things in which sex makes people feel like they are broken. Everyone has what they want in many different ways in life, maybe through experience, through nature or other practices, through culture, through art, through affection, through love and through sex... all can be mended, but there are things that are broken, just let them be broken," she shared.
However, love and sex have never had a big impact on the female director born in 1982 or made her consider it a big choice in her life. "I can stop making films when I think that making films will make my mother continue to be sick because it is like some kind of spiritual thing. It's like the more luck I have, the more bad luck others will have to bear. I can stop, but love and sex are not the reasons to stop big things," the director of the film 10A8 Quartet expressed.
Dreams that make men too terrified
Besides the filmmaking, in episode 4 of Story VI , the story of sex was discussed, especially in the context of dating apps (specifically Tinder) becoming popular. Not only stopping from the perspective of a filmmaker, Nguyen Hoang Diep commented that people have too easily experienced relationships with people they do not know.
According to Nguyen Hoang Diep, "I have never felt that getting married is an obstacle for me."
"I had hours of conversations with the hairdressers I was very close to. They explained that they went on Tinder to make friends after a tiring 10-hour workday and had no time to talk to anyone in person, so they had to "swipe" right away. Chatting on Tinder was also quick and easy, when they met at the coffee shop, if they liked it, they would continue, if not, they would stop," Nguyen Hoang Diep recalled.
"This is too risky, it can prolong the suffering when there is loss, things that should still exist can disappear," she added.
According to Nguyen Hoang Diep, when it comes to love and sex, the most prominent state is fear, so she often chooses to avoid or solve it in the safest way. At the same time, the female director also commented that dating apps affect both men and women and there is no such thing as boys always benefiting from the girls they know or girls being eroded and damaged more in this relationship.
Although not really assured about the above issue at the moment, the film producer is also thinking about changing the perspective and aiming for positive values from dating through the application. "I hope that one day, Tinder or dating applications will create a new value," Hoang Diep shared.
Choosing to get married and have children early, the director of the movie Flapping in the Middle of Nowhere now says that he has changed when he dares to speak out his thoughts about family. "Before, it was hard for me to say it, and I wouldn't say it out loud if I thought about it... But honestly, I have never felt that getting married is an obstacle for me."
60 minutes with host Nguyen Khac Ngan Vi at Story VI
When host Nguyen Khac Ngan Vi asked about her dream of becoming a man like many other women, the film producer said this was the most terrifying dream of her life. "Because I think being a man is too difficult and too hard. Maybe one day, women's monthly problems will be solved in a new way, but I still feel that men are very hard to deal with, they have nowhere to blame. They don't have the opportunity to blame like girls when they are tired, at least girls have a few days a month for them to make excuses, but they don't have the right to do that. Because from the beginning, boys have to consider themselves to have an upper hand," she explained.
The director of the film 10A8 Quartet also expressed his jealousy of artists of other genders, especially those in the LGBT group. "They experience a more diverse life than me, which I never have the opportunity to experience on a deeper spiritual and psychological level," said Hoang Diep.
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