GĐXH - Quan always says that he is lucky to have a wife. It is his wife who makes him feel the warmth and stability of a home.
Wang Zongjun in Shandong, China, was too poor to get married at an old age. At the age of 37, Zongjun was introduced to a girl from a neighboring village. She had a good personality but her legs were unable to walk.
Vuong Tong Quan thought, his family was poor and he was old so he did not dare to be picky. He followed the matchmaker to Tran Thuc My's house - a girl was sitting on the bed.
Due to her paralyzed legs, Thuc My could only sit in one place and bow her head to greet. Her kind smile and polite, graceful way of speaking made Tong Quan fall in love with her at first sight.
When he learned that Thuc My was born healthy, but fell ill at the age of 15 and became completely paralyzed, Tong Quan felt even more sympathy. Despite the pressure, Thuc My was not pessimistic.
Thuc My's frankness and optimism warmed Tong Quan's lonely heart, so he decided to marry this girl.
On the wedding day, because he was so poor, Tong Quan could only give his wife 20 yuan (about 70 thousand VND) as a dowry and used a cart to take Thuc My more than 10 miles back to his thatched house.
The moment Thuc My walked through the door, Vuong Tong Quan silently vowed to take care of her and treat her well for the rest of his life.
From then on, every day Tong Quan woke up early, cooked breakfast, then gently woke his wife up and fed her spoonfuls of food. Only when she finished eating did he eat.
Tong Quan's devotion to his wife made many people admire him.
Vuong Tong Quan's salary was already meager, now he had another mouth to feed but he never complained.
When his wife felt guilty for not being able to help him, Tong Quan always said: "Life is hard, it's okay, as long as you're here, I'm happy."
Some people ridiculed Wang Zongjun for being foolish enough to marry a paralyzed person into his home, but he never paid attention to the gossip.
Tong Jun always said that he was lucky to have a wife. It was his wife who made him feel the warmth and solidity of a home. Although his wife was disabled, she gave him hope and the motivation to live.
The sweet fruit of that love is that the couple gave birth to two big, healthy boys.
Vuong Tong Quan always taught his children to live morally and responsibly. Now his two sons are married and very filial to their parents.
When Vuong Tong Quan and his wife were already in their 80s, the eldest son took his parents to live with him so he could take care of them.
In his son's house, Tong Quan sometimes secretly fed his wife delicious food like he was taking care of a child.
Signs of a good husband
Family oriented
Each of us has many different relationships. However, if a partner always prioritizes spending time with family, prioritizes relationships and makes an effort to nurture the family, he is a valuable man.
A person who values maintaining healthy relationships with loved ones will also prioritize their relationship with their spouse.
If your man enjoys spending time with his close ones, that's what he's looking forward to in your future married life as well.
Respect your partner's opinions and personality
There are many women who are trapped in one-sided relationships and marriages, where they are forced to do what is necessary but rarely get to do what they want or need.
To avoid this, it's best to find a man who values your input in important decisions and respects your views.
In other words, he sees you as an equal partner, engaging you in healthy discussions, encouraging open dialogue, and respecting your views even when there are differences of opinion.
Reliable
If you're dating a man who always keeps his promises and can be counted on when you need him, he clearly has the qualities to be a good husband.
If your man enjoys spending time with his loved ones, that's what he'll expect in your future marriage. Illustration photo
Be patient and understanding.
Equally important is finding a man who understands that relationships require patience and compromise.
They are willing to work through challenges and conflicts with empathy and understanding. Can you imagine being married for 20-50 years to someone who gets easily frustrated or upset when things don't go as expected?
It's much better if he's an empathetic husband who is willing to connect with your emotions and support you.
Be proactive with housework
Traditionally, women have been held to be the primary caregivers in the household. However, men are also part of the family and should participate in these activities.
A real man should be willing to do his fair share of household responsibilities. He should know how to operate the vacuum cleaner and load the dishwasher properly.
Can take care of wife and children
A man may not achieve much, not be rich, not be respected by everyone, but at least he can take care of his wife and children.
He is responsible for his marriage, knows how to work to earn money, and knows how to take care of household expenses.
Not only that, he also knows how to care for and satisfy his wife's emotional needs. These things make the two sides closer and life more joyful.
No matter how responsible a man is, if he doesn't make money and lives off his wife, he can never be a good husband.
Always stand by your wife
In married life, there are many events that can happen. Sometimes, events cause people's hearts to change, and the two cannot continue to walk together.
In life, many men may not be good-looking or have a high income, but they always stand by and accompany their wives.
He will never leave his wife alone with hardships and is willing to face them together. Difficulties become easier when both know how to love, stick together and overcome everything.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/chua-tung-noi-3-tu-anh-yeu-em-nhung-cach-nguoi-dan-ong-nay-cham-vo-gan-50-nam-con-hon-ca-yeu-172250227162154382.htm
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