How faithful are men when they are away from their wives? These 3 men will tell you the truth!

No one wants a husband and wife to be apart for a short or long period of time. Without strong faith, understanding and trust in each other, the relationship between husband and wife will be greatly affected.

In fact, many couples still silently persevere, for the sake of their children's lives and future, but cannot accompany each other every day.

So can a man be faithful if his wife is not by his side? These 3 men will tell you the truth:

Mr. Luong: "I will not do anything wrong to my wife, loyalty is the foundation of marriage"

Mr. Luong and his wife have been married for 10 years and have lived apart for 6 years. Due to their poor family circumstances, they had no choice but to choose to work far away to earn more income to take care of their parents and children.

Because his income is increasing, he works hard day and night, working overtime without rest, and has less time to visit home.

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When he is lonely, misses home, misses his wife and children, he throws himself into work, as long as he has money, he will have motivation. Because he believes: " Being a little diligent will shorten the time away from home. Because I am determined to have some capital, I will return to my hometown, not work far away anymore".

When asked if he was faithful to his wife, Mr. Luong was determined: He would not do anything to make his wife worry because he understood that loyalty is the foundation of marriage.

“For 6 years I have been away from home, only coming back twice during Tet and the children's summer vacation. My wife has been taking care of all the housework and the 2 children by herself. She has had a hard time, so I absolutely will not do anything wrong to make her worry,” Mr. Luong shared.

In his heart, his wife is a very kind woman, shouldering the burden of the family, taking care of all the housework, understanding and supporting him very much, how could he make her sad?

So the only thing he could do was earn money and go home as soon as possible.

For couples who have lived apart for a long time, if they can do this, their marriage will certainly not have any problems. Husband and wife must be of one mind, understand each other, trust each other, and work together, no matter how far apart they are, then the relationship can be sustainable and stable.

Mr. Toan: "It was just a momentary impulse, but the person I love the most is my wife."

Toan and his wife have been married for 12 years and have lived apart for 9 years. Toan said that the fact that they have been apart for so long is actually his fault. After getting married, the company opened a branch in the South, and seeing the potential, he decided to apply to work there.

“When I left, my wife was pregnant, and when I came back, the baby was already crawling. There were times when I was depressed and went out drinking with friends to forget the burden of making a living. A few times I paid for sex, but I never had an affair with any girl. However, I was still aware that I had a wife and children at home,” Toan confided.

He frankly said that he did not intentionally do anything to affect his wife, but sometimes he was so "needy" that he could not control himself.

Mr. Toan will always keep this in mind, not letting his wife know. In the coming days, he will work hard to earn money, love his wife well in the future, so that the family can have a better life.

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Mr. Hoang: "Women outside can understand me better, can I not be tempted?"

Mr. Hoang and his wife have been married for 15 years. His job requires him to travel a lot. Currently, the relationship between them is very cold, they don't even want to talk.

At first, his wife complained about him going out a lot, but gradually she got used to it. His wife is an introvert, quiet and it is difficult to ask her out. He realized that there was an invisible boundary between them, the older the children got, the more they lived together out of responsibility.

Over time, misunderstandings and conflicts arose between the couple. The wife thought that he must have done something wrong outside, otherwise why would he be away from home so often?

Mr. Hoang explained that it was because of work, but she still did not understand. As a result, the conflict between husband and wife became deeper and deeper.

When he was most depressed, that woman took the initiative to come to him. She had everything his wife did not have. He felt loved, cared for, pampered and understood.

Mr. Hoang said: “This woman understands me better than my wife, how can I not be tempted? My marriage is in this state, it is not my fault alone. Whatever the future holds, let it be natural.”

Conclusion

For couples who live in different places for a long time, whether the man goes out to earn money or the woman stays home to take care of the family and children, it is really not easy for both sides.

At this time, husband and wife must understand and trust each other, keep in touch, and communicate regularly so that the relationship between husband and wife becomes stronger.

Men should remember that your purpose of going far away is to have a better life later, then you must stick to the ultimate purpose of marriage, work hard and do not give up easily.

Only when husband and wife maintain marital fidelity, understand and trust each other, and have strong faith will their marriage not be affected by changes in time and distance.

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