The reason this clip became so "viral" is not because of marital conflict, but the meaningful story behind it.
The husband in the clip is 38 years old and lives in Beijing (China). He secretly worked as a food delivery driver without telling his family after losing his job. However, the secret was eventually discovered by his wife.
According to the information shared by the husband after the clip of him being scolded by his wife became famous online, he was a “victim” in the current wave of layoffs. It was not because he lacked the ability, it was simply because he was a less optimal choice than others. Understanding the situation of the company and the current times, he accepted to leave.
After that, he applied to many companies but got no results. In a serious psychological crisis, partly because he could not let his family know that he lost his job, partly because he was worried that at the end of the month he would not have enough salary to give his wife for household expenses, he chose to work as a food delivery shipper.
Paper can't wrap fire. His wife already knew about it.
That night, while sitting in front of the computer, his wife suddenly angrily approached him and exposed him for secretly working as a delivery man after losing his job. She questioned: “How do we calculate the children’s tuition, rent, and debt?”
The husband was silent, not saying a word.
But then the wife said: “I am angry because you do not share with me. I am your wife, if you do not tell me, who will you tell? We have been married for 15 years, is there anything we cannot solve together?” This sentence made the man immediately burst into tears.
After losing his job, this man did not want his family to worry about him so he chose to stay silent and hide it.
With her resilience and deep love, the wife moved her husband's heart, which was on the verge of collapse, causing him to put aside his strong will and hug his wife, crying like a child. Her words were harsh but full of responsibility, understanding and affection.
Netizens also likened this to a strong and responsible statement said in the most aggressive tone.
When people reach middle age, they have to face the pressures of life, so it is not natural that psychology has a term: Midlife crisis. And the most frightening thing in this stage is probably losing your job.
After losing his job, the most worrying thing was that his family could not understand and sympathize. It was a pity that this 38-year-old man was unemployed, but he was also happy to have met a capable wife who could shoulder the burden and go through all the ups and downs with him.
A touched netizen spoke up: "Getting married like this is enough!"
When a man reaches middle age, only he himself can understand the bitterness and tears in his heart. He has to earn money every day and dare not delay for a moment. However, having such a sympathetic and generous wife, what more could this man ask for?
Although unemployment can make life difficult, family support and understanding can help you overcome challenges. Mutual support and trust between husband and wife is the most valuable asset. No matter how wind and rain, as long as we hold hands and grow old together, this is the true happiness that people should pursue, and it is also the true embodiment of the power of love.
Source: Sohu
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