Husband suddenly becomes difficult and jealous

I don't know why, but my husband has become difficult in recent months. He even accused me of having an "extramarital affair" and was unreasonably jealous.

My husband and I are the same age, both 62 years old. Our married life used to be very pleasant, my husband is cheerful and active. However, for some reason, in the past few months, my husband has often been sulking and angry.

He was not pleased with almost everything I did. I had a group of friends who often chatted and "traded" online, but he didn't like it either, saying I was only with friends all day and forgot about my husband. He even accused me of having an "extramarital affair" and was unreasonably jealous.

He also became picky about food. When I cooked carelessly, he said I no longer loved him. He had trouble sleeping at night and wanted to sleep separately. I agreed immediately, so he said my feelings were insipid. He originally wanted to test me, but he didn't expect me to agree like that. Before, I couldn't sleep without my husband.

I feel so upset. What should I do to get him back to normal?

Nguyen Lam Chi ( Hanoi )

My husband used to be cheerful and active, but now he has become difficult and difficult to please. Illustration photo.

Dear Uncle Chi, as we enter old age, there are many reasons why a person changes his or her personality: It could be because of living conditions, health, or some incident...

If your husband, who was once a cheerful and lively person, has now become difficult and sulky, then you should try to find out what is causing this. For example, does he have any illness? Or is it loneliness? It is very possible that his sulking and irritability are to get his wife to pay more attention or to feel insecure in their relationship. This is also shown through the fact that he uses the trick of sleeping separately to test his wife's feelings...

Instead of being upset, you should get closer to your uncle to understand the cause. Once you know the reason, you will know how to handle it. Wishing you peace!

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