Preparing for the wedding, the future mother-in-law came to the house with a shocking proposal that caused the bride to cancel the wedding.

Many times, conflicts lead to the breakdown of a relationship not because of the two people involved. Conflicts can come from the husband's parents or relatives on both sides.

A 29-year-old woman named Liu shared her own difficult story. According to her, Liu and her boyfriend named Ly Kiet have been in love for 4 years. He treats her very well. If there is anything that makes her hesitate in this relationship, it is that his family is too poor, while Liu's family is well-off. She is also an only daughter.

"My boyfriend's family has 5 siblings, and his family is very poor. However, I don't worry too much about that issue. My boyfriend is ambitious, knows how to improve himself, and is the only person in his family working in a big city. The rest of his siblings are in the countryside doing farming .

We met at work. At first, I admired him for his sense of responsibility. Every month, he sent most of his money home to his parents. That's why, after many years of graduating, he still didn't have any savings. At that time, I thought that men should be like that. Even though my parents analyzed it, I still thought that was good, so I dated for a long time and decided to get married," Ms. Luu said.

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Later, Liu's parents could not stop their daughter and agreed to let her get married. Her parents' only request was that Ly Kiet treat their daughter sincerely and love her. They were even willing to take care of everything for the wedding, as long as they lived happily together in the future.

Ms. Luu added: "On the journey to prepare for marriage, I went from one disillusionment to another. Ly Kiet's family wanted to have a hasty wedding ceremony because they thought it was just a formality. The two sides registered their marriage and then lived together to save money. His mother told me directly that nothing was more important than living together later. If the wedding party didn't have enough money to make up for it, we would lose money and be very tired. When I said that my parents were willing to take care of the wedding party, his family made a fuss, thinking that my family was showing off.

My parents gave me a house to get married. After knowing the story, my future mother-in-law insisted on making a red book under both my husband and I's names. After my mother knew the story, she firmly refused. She said that this was my pre-marital property, my parents gave it to me alone. My husband and I just lived comfortably and happily in the house, without any interference, but the red book was of course only in my name. Because of this, my future mother-in-law also caused a storm."

That was not all, Li Jie's family thought that since her family was giving her the house, they would be in charge of decorating the apartment. This assumed that how the apartment was decorated would be up to his parents. Liu of course did not agree. She had certain ideas for her apartment and wanted it to be her dream home. Unexpectedly, after she spoke out, his mother also objected and thought that Liu looked down on her family.

"I was so tired that I even thought about not getting married. Especially since Ly Kiet could never protect me. He was always confused whenever his mother gave her opinion, no matter how unreasonable it was.

Near the wedding day, my mother-in-law came to the house and made a statement that made me decide to end it all.

Accordingly, the future mother-in-law suggested that in the future, her parents-in-law and Ly Kiet's two younger siblings would come to live in the house together. They wanted to find jobs in the city and renting a house was really expensive.

"Living together means we can take care of each other. The daughter-in-law must live with her parents-in-law, that's the rule of this family," his mother said. Ly Kiet nodded repeatedly, thinking that in the future the whole family would be more harmonious. I was furious and refused. I just wanted to get married and live separately in the house my parents gave me, I didn't want to live with anyone else. After that, the two sides made a fuss, I declared the end, didn't have a wedding anymore and quickly broke up with Ly Kiet. I was so tired, not even married yet. After getting married, I probably wouldn't have any privacy anymore," Ms. Luu shared.

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After the story was published, many people thought that Ms. Liu was lucky to have come to her senses at the last minute and decided to stop. This relationship is really difficult to last long. Especially when Ly Kiet has almost no voice and supports his mother unconditionally. Falling into this relationship, Ms. Liu will find it very difficult to be happy for a long time.

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