Don't 'race' on the scoreboard

At the end of the school year, while many students are eagerly awaiting an exciting summer, many have to face the pressure of grades and academic results as parents are “racing” on their children’s report cards. The pressure of grades and rankings sometimes becomes too great a burden on the children’s small shoulders. We expect our children to study well and be successful, but have we ever wondered what the price of that “success” is?

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Do 9s and 10s really reflect a child's ability and effort ? Each child has their own strengths, some are good at math, some are passionate about literature, painting or sports . Looking only at scores and rankings inadvertently ignores the child's other strengths and efforts.

The pressure to achieve not only makes children stressed and tired, but can also lead to negative psychological consequences. They may feel self-conscious, depressed, and even afraid of studying. The relationship between parents and children can also become tense when daily inquiries and concerns revolve around grades.

Instead of focusing on results, why don't we try to look at our children's learning process more comprehensively? Let's encourage them to explore new things and nurture their passion for learning. Let's listen to them share about the difficulties and challenges they are facing. Let's accompany them, not only as a supervisor but also as a friend and a cheerleader.

The ultimate goal ofeducation is not just numbers on a report card but comprehensive development. A happy, confident and passionate child will be motivated to learn and develop much better than a child who is always under pressure.

Create a comfortable learning environment for your child, where he can be himself, freely explore and develop in his own way. Let his childhood be filled with the joy of learning, not stressful "races"./.

Kim Oanh

Source: https://baolongan.vn/dung-chay-dua-tren-bang-diem-a195655.html