Shocking student at school and behind the story of female student asking for breast augmentation

(Dan Tri) - Images of students "spontaneously" showing off their bodies, shaking their hips, and pole dancing right in school have shocked and annoyed many people. But behind these images lies more than just rebellious and competitive behavior...

Students want to "treat" friends, teachers are scared

Recently, in many schools, there has been a phenomenon of students suddenly performing "excessive" acts such as hip shaking, body showing, pole dancing, etc., which has left many schools unable to react and has also led to many heated arguments.

Some incidents such as a female student performing a hip-shaking modern dance were considered excessive and inappropriate for the school environment at the year-end ceremony at a school in Nghe An .

Or the incident where a male student at Ho Thi Bi High School, Ho Chi Minh City, dressed up like a comic book with a dress that exposed the shoulders, thighs, and chest, so boldly that it was hard to imagine.

Male student dressed in offensive costume during student festival at a school in Ho Chi Minh City (Photo: TL).

Not a TikTok or any other free setting, the surprising thing is that this male student appeared in the frame with his classmates in the context of a student festival held at school. This student's offensive appearance was a personal "improvisation" moment, not part of the program and the school was completely unaware.

Then, many pole dancing performances, revealing body parts, and obscene hip shaking performances suddenly appeared in schools, with the main "actors" being the students.

Those are "fait accompli" events, but there are many cases that almost happened or have potential risks of students "showing off and rebelling" in school.

The head of the Youth Union at a secondary school in Nghe An said he was once scared to death when he accidentally discovered his student intending to perform a "stripping off" act during a school performance.

These students are in the class's art group, participating in a modern dance performance in a unique style. In this performance, the students dressed modestly, had appropriate movements, and demonstrated the dynamism of the students, so there was nothing to worry about.

Pole dancing by a former student also happened at a school in Ho Chi Minh City (Photo captured from clip)

If it stopped there, it would be fine. However, through a student, he learned that some of the students in the group planned to take off their coats and pants at the end of the class, leaving only a tank top and shorts underneath, and perform more sexy moves to “treat” their friends.

The teacher then spoke privately to one of the students in the group, saying that he understood their need to express themselves and bring joy to others. But that could lead to negative consequences in the school if the dress and style were inappropriate.

Not to mention, the teacher also analyzed that it was just a minute of fun, but if the clip was saved or spread around, the students would be the ones who would be affected the most. In the end, the students gave up this idea of ​​"showing off".

Behind the story of a female student demanding... breast augmentation

The “rebellious” phenomena of school age such as showing off their bodies, showing off their behavior… not only make the school but also their parents worry. But behind the way they express themselves, their rebellion is not on the surface that people often see as spoiled, morally degraded…

When talking about student rebellion, Ms. Nguyen Thuy Uyen Phuong mentioned the case of a female student who wanted to get breast augmentation (Photo: TH).

Talking about the “showing off” of teenage students,educator Nguyen Thuy Uyen Phuong, Chairwoman of the I Can School Board, shared the story of a 13-year-old female student who insisted on… getting breast implants.

The mother fell into a crisis, unable to accept that at this age her child had thoughts that she considered too deviant and competitive. The mother-child relationship fell into confrontation and tension.

After meeting the child privately, Ms. Phuong talked to the mother, which surprised the mother...

When Ms. Phuong asked about her desire to get breast augmentation, the girl replied: "I see many girls who are "flat" and no one pays attention, just need to get breast augmentation and they will become famous hot girls." Along with her answer, the student listed a series of names of hot girls, models, singers...

The educator nodded in agreement, agreeing with the girl and stating her opinion that beauty is an undeniable advantage.

Next, she asked me: "Have you ever seen anyone who didn't have breast implants or wasn't pretty but was still famous?". I nodded repeatedly: "There's singer T. who didn't have breast implants, dresses in a very rustic way but is still famous."

When asked why she is famous, she replied: "Because she sings well and has no scandals." She also listed many famous people in other fields who rose to fame through talent and hard work...

Behind children's rebellion are the influence of cultural currents and the need for attention and recognition (Illustration: Hoai Nam).

After the conversation, the female student realized that there are many ways to get attention and assert herself, not just... breast augmentation. She said: "I will reconsider my breast augmentation plan."

After listening to the exchange, the mother realized that the desire behind her child’s cosmetic surgery was not a true desire. Her child’s real need was the need to be noticed, to be famous, to be known, to assert himself… very reasonable and very human needs.

The idea of ​​having breast augmentation surgery was just the solution I saw at that time when I didn't see many other solutions to assert myself.

Ms. Nguyen Thuy Uyen Phuong emphasized that when interacting with children, we need to pay attention to their real needs hidden behind their expressions, words, or even in their demands and requests.

When a child has rebellious behaviors like hip shaking, pole dancing, wanting breast implants, nose jobs, or insisting on going to see Blackpink, or even not caring about cigarettes or alcohol... it may not be because they are being unorthodox or spoiled.

Behind that is the need to express, to be noticed, to be cared for, to be sociable, to be accepted by friends, the need to understand trends, the need to assert oneself...

The phenomenon of "showing off" among students today is greatly influenced by internet culture and idol culture on stage entering schools.

In these cases, if the school, parents, and public opinion only look at the surface to judge extremely, we may miss the question that needs to be answered: "Why do children act like that?".

Students need to be properly oriented on how to express their abilities and personalities. In the photo, students in Ho Chi Minh City perform Shakespeare (Photo: Hoai Nam).

Behind the hip shaking and exposed chest of students is a process of being influenced and also the desire to be noticed and recognized. They need to have their needs and desires recognized, as well as orientation in approaching culture and in expressing their needs appropriately.

As shared by the principal of Ho Thi Bi High School, Ho Chi Minh City about the incident of a male student showing off his body in an offensive way during the school festival: "We talked to him so he understood that the image was inappropriate in school, not to criticize him as a person."

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