As a woman, you need to love yourself.

Happiness needs to be cultivated from both sides - Photo: QUANG DINH

Perhaps that is why for generations, the women around us have confined themselves to the duties of being wives, mothers, and grandmothers, sacrificing everything for their husbands, children, and grandchildren. Many people around us have never sought happiness for themselves, but only watch their husbands eat delicious food and be happy, take care to buy beautiful clothes for their children and smile with satisfaction.

Don't silently give away your love and suddenly one day look back, the pain and regret are still lingering, lingering, and filling your heart.

She was the eldest daughter-in-law in a conservative family with a deep-rooted tradition of prejudice. The household chores were taken care of by her mother-in-law and then passed on to her small shoulders to carry for many years. She thought that if the wife had done her job, the husband would not betray her. Unexpectedly, her husband had someone else.

She still deeply regrets her youth, the long time she spent diligently building her family's happiness. She is "rustic" because she never bought herself a fancy dress. She is "uncouth" because she never paid attention to wearing makeup or branded goods. She lives a simple, honest life like a wild flower blooming on the roadside.

She realized that she was wrong in the way she loved. She loved him so much that she forgot that she also needed to be taken care of both physically and mentally. She loved him so much that she sacrificed everything without asking for happiness to be cultivated from both sides.

Happiness is not a destination. Happiness is a journey. As a woman, don't just love others, love yourself too...

Source: https://tuoitre.vn/la-phu-nu-can-lam-yeu-thuong-minh-20241019104503331.htm