Lan Phuong reveals the special reason why her Western husband loves her

"No one is perfect, everyone is different. Instead of trying to change each other, we should find ways to understand and share with each other to make married life easier," said actress Lan Phuong.

In a conversation with Dan Tri reporter, actress Lan Phuong, who plays Ngoc Ha in the movie Gia dinh minh vui bat thuc luat, revealed for the first time the reasons why her 2m tall Western husband loves her. Two of them are innocence and independence.

"My husband laughed because there were many scenes where Ha looked like me."

Many people think that every time Ha appears, the atmosphere of the film is stirred up. But there are also opinions that affirm that her appearance is monotonous and boring. What do you think about this? Do those mixed comments affect you?

- I don't think Ha's character is monotonous or boring. If there is such an opinion, it may be because the audience has only watched the first episodes of the film. The screenwriter created a family with 4 women, which means there are 4 different colors, from appearance to personality.

As for Ngoc Ha, she has outstanding personality traits such as cheerful, lovely, positive, emotional, so she often overreacts.

I really like the character Ha, because she always has a different way of facing and solving problems. It is her positivity that helps Ha turn serious problems into lighter ones.

As an actor who has played many types of roles on screen, I am not too surprised or worried when receiving compliments or criticisms from the audience. Moreover, the character Ha has all the bright colors, sometimes a bit dazzling, that the audience needs time to get used to and accept her. Therefore, it is understandable that there are many opinions from the audience.

I always listen and receive those feedbacks in the most positive way. As for negative opinions, I will collect them to perfect the character. It is the opinions of the audience that help me accumulate more life experience as well as more multi-dimensional feelings in the roles.

You shared that Ha in "My family is suddenly happy" helped you freely express your real-life personality into the character?

- Yes. I am quite similar to Ha in my youthful and humorous personality. My husband even laughed and said that there are many scenes of Ha in the movie that are very similar to me.

The difference between me and Ha is that I will not pay too much attention to things that are not related to me, and simplify things that others find serious to find a more effective solution. Ha, on the other hand, likes to listen to everything, sometimes speculate and aggravate the problem.

This is the second time you play the role of People's Artist Lan Huong's daughter-in-law. How do you feel?

- I feel closer to her. In this movie, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship is also happy and not as tense as in Love on a Sunny Day . Because there are many scenes together, the two of them have more opportunities to talk.

Ms. Huong and I are both professional actors, so it was easy to coordinate and work well together. Moreover, she is a good and experienced actress, so this is another good opportunity for me to learn.

So what about the reunion with Doan Quoc Dam?

- Actually, before, in the movie "Love on the Sunny Days" , we only met each other in a few scenes, so the movie "Gia dinh minh vui bat thuc luat " was the first time Doan Quoc Dam and I had the opportunity to act together.

I think this is one of the most interesting experiences. Quoc Dam is a good actor, creative, flexible in improvisation. When acting together, both of them easily catch each other's emotions and have good coordination.

Great and very understanding parents-in-law

In real life, Lan Phuong does not live with her husband's family. After playing the role of Ha in "My family is suddenly happy", have you thought about one day living with your husband's parents?

- I think it would be great if every family was like the ones in the movies. That is when all members are sincerely attached to each other. I really like the way strangers meet and then become relatives.

They build their family with love, care and concern for each other. That is truly admirable.

Many times I have thought: "What would it be like to live with a husband's family like this? Would I be able to adapt?" However, because I have been used to living independently since I was 18 years old. Moreover, my husband and I have lived separately from the beginning, so I currently do not have the intention as you said.

I can't predict the future, but I know that right now my husband and I are treating each other with the utmost sincerity and love.

Actress Lan Phuong

Can you share a little about your husband's parents?

- I really admire your love. I still remember the first time I met my husband's parents, even though they were on the street, they always held hands. While she was watching TV, he would sit and massage her feet because her feet hurt after many years of working as a chef. Whenever something happened, they always gave in and sympathized with each other.

In addition, they are also wonderful, understanding parents. The calls between my husband and his parents often last a long time. He confides in them everything from work, family to social relationships.

To my children, my father-in-law is like a "big friend". My daughter loves him very much! She always considers him number one in her heart and often imitates his actions.

It can be seen that you are very much loved by your husband. Although you and your husband have differences in nationality, culture, and language, you always keep the flame of happiness. What is your secret?

- First is independence. When a woman is independent in life, she will be attractive to men. Second, I still have the image of a child, with simple, innocent and kind thoughts.

Since we fell in love, he has always tried to do everything he could to take care of his wife. In addition, he also shared that he was always impressed by my concern for people in difficult circumstances.

My husband and I also had many disagreements, especially when I was in business. The pressures of starting a business, filming, and taking care of children at the same time with different views caused my husband and I to have many arguments. Being busy with work also made us spend less time together.

However, recently, my husband and I have found a balance and share more with each other. I cannot predict the future, but I know that, at present, both my husband and I are treating each other with the utmost sincerity and love.

"My husband and I are always sincere and open with each other."

What do you love most about your husband? Is there anything you would like to see your husband change?

- He is a very good husband. He doesn't mind doing anything as long as it is right and brings happiness to the family.

With my work, he always respects me, never gets jealous when he sees me acting in romantic scenes. Of course, no one is perfect, everyone will be different. Instead of trying to change each other, we should find ways to understand and share with each other to make married life easier.

Do you trust your husband absolutely?

- For me, in this world , nothing is absolutely certain. I always look at life from many different angles. My husband and I are always sincere and open to each other. The most important thing to me is the present, how to make what is in the present the best, and today will be better than yesterday. That is how my life works.

In modern life, many people do not have enough time to spend with their children. However, following Lan Phuong's personal page, we can see that she shares many clips with her daughter. How do you divide your time to both work and be with your child?

- Giving birth and raising a child requires a lot of love and responsibility from parents. I always want my child to develop the best in thinking, emotion, and movement. Therefore, I spend a lot of time observing my child, paying close attention to each stage of his development.

No matter how busy I am, I always find a way to take care of my child. If I come home from work and my child is already asleep, I will observe how he lies down and how he sleeps. In the morning, I also spend some time hugging him, understanding his attitude and emotions towards everything around him, as well as feeling his affection for me.

In my free time, I take my child out. We share everything with each other whenever possible.

I am always patient with my child's feelings and questions, and explain them to her gently. Thanks to that, Lina listens carefully and remembers what I say for a long time.

Does your husband interfere in your viewson raising your children?

- At first, yes. For example, when my child was only 1 or 2 years old, he gave me his opinion on how to teach him to sleep or how to keep him clean. But after seeing the positive results from my child, he completely supported my teaching methods.

Currently, we agree on how to raise our children.

For a dynamic and flexible actress like Lan Phuong, the Southern environment is more suitable for her to develop her career. Why did you decide to live and work in Hanoi ? Do you regret this decision?

- I have no regrets. The only reason I came to Hanoi is because my husband works here. I don't spend time regretting because it doesn't bring any better value.

Instead, I try to do my best to create new opportunities. And in fact, I have had many good results in both my personal life and my career.

I think I really have a connection with Hanoi. Although I lived in Vung Tau, Ho Chi Minh City since I was little and then married a foreigner, I now live with my small family in Hanoi - the place where I was born.

When I went to Hanoi, the television industry was developing strongly with good films, so I also had better opportunities.

Thanks for sharing!

Content: Huong Ho

Photo: Toan Vu, character's Facebook

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