Overcoming Mars and Venus, published by Tre Publishing House in February 2022, is a practical handbook for maintaining a family, highly appreciated by tens of thousands of readers around the world .
The book quickly became a global hit, selling more than 15 million copies. According to CNN , it was the "highest-rated non-fiction work" of the 1990s.
More than 20 years ago, John Gray used the terms "Mars" and "Venus" to name the gender differences between men and women, which are most evident when living together.
This revolutionized the way people view love and relationships around the world. He has helped countless people improve and even save their marriages.
Cover of the book "Overcoming Mars and Venus" (Photo: Tre Publishing House).
As society continues to change, so do relationships. It's time for humans to move beyond "Mars" and "Venus" and enter a whole new "universe" of modern couples.
Today’s fast-paced lifestyle and work schedules have increased stress for both men and women. Women are working more and men are taking on more household chores. Relationship dynamics have changed.
But that doesn't mean that "he" and "she" are exactly the same. They are still biologically different, so their reactions to changes in role are different.
Moving past Mars, Venus meticulously analyzes each other's new needs, emotional support, and new challenges in modern relationships.
In the past, the husband only needed to go to work every day to provide enough for the family to live, which satisfied most of the wife's expectations in the marital relationship.
But modern women need support to satisfy their needs for soul-centered love as well.
And men also need to feel trusted, admired and appreciated for their efforts to provide emotional support to their wives and children - that is spiritual success, in addition to success at work.
So understanding the new needs of the other person, as well as understanding what you need, is the key to a happy life.
Excerpt from the book "Overcoming Mars and Venus" (Photo: Tre Publishing House).
If previous generations were oriented towards partner relationships, based on "stereotypical" gender roles, today people are freer to express themselves more authentically than ever.
Everyone has access to both their masculine and feminine sides, and needs skills for a new type of relationship: soulmates.
Soulmate relationships require emotional satisfaction in love, and for this to happen, both parties must understand each other's individual needs.
Through Beyond Mars and Venus, John Gray will guide you through the process of staying committed and committed in love, so that you and your partner can fully support each other's needs for a long-lasting and fulfilling happiness.
What makes this book special is its detail and specificity. The author does not give general advice but very specific instructions.
From hormonal changes in women over time, to modern men's psychology, the influence of cultural norms, the impact of stress on the brain, signs of stress in both parties, activities to take care of yourself, time for each person...
There are many changing needs, but there are also constants, such as "she" always needs to be listened to and "he" always needs to be appreciated; and how to meet those needs is also guided in a practical, easy-to-apply way.
Photo of John Gray and his wife in their home in Marin, January 15, 2008. (Photo: Deanne Fitzmaurice/SFC).
John Gray, 72, is the world's leading expert on relationships. He is the author of the globally acclaimed book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
His series of books on marriage and health have sold more than 50 million copies, translated into 45 different languages, and published in 150 countries.
For over 40 years, he has helped millions of people improve their relationships, communication skills, and health.
His advice carries weight because it is partly based on his own experience. He was happily married to his wife of 32 years until she died of cancer.
He has appeared many times on The Oprah Winfrey Show, CBS This morning, Good morning America...
His portraits and works have been featured in magazines such as Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People .
His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy nutritional choices that create brain and body chemistry for long-lasting health, happiness, and romance.
He also offers natural solutions to overcome depression, anxiety and stress to help increase energy, improve libido, balance hormones and get good sleep.
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