Pay for dates

The girl shared a video clip that received more than 1 million views on the TikTok platform with the content "Dressed up, put on makeup for 2 hours to go on a date, but was only invited to a cup of coffee". After that, this girl said that she had broken up with this guy because she thought he was not gallant and did not spend much money. This girl's story caused a lot of controversy, in which many people also shared similar cases such as: Being forced to split the payment for meals or not being given gifts...

From an experienced perspective, I realize, “Are we complicating and taking dating too seriously?”. I remember my generation, everything was so simple, even my husband (who was also my first love) and I dated at a familiar street corner to chat and ask about each other’s lives.

For me, dating, getting to know each other and officially entering a relationship is a long journey, and we cannot rush to judge or conclude. But do many people now say that we have too many opportunities and many people to get to know, so dating and first meetings are very hasty and we make hasty judgments about each other?

As a woman, I also like the gallantry of the other person, the fact that they pay for me during the first date meal, I think this is not wrong. Because it proves that he wants to conquer me, wants to get to know me.

However, to be fair, girls also need to have their own subtlety and cannot accept one-sidedly. Maybe instead of expecting him to pay for everything on the date, girls should proactively ask to pay a few small fees, even send a gift back or simply invite the guy to dinner again on the next date.

Not only women but also men need to receive when giving. It is not necessarily in the material aspect but also in the spiritual value through the other person's kind behavior. And if possible, always know how to respond, you cannot assume that because he is a man, he absolutely has to pay for the dates.

Source: https://laodong.vn/van-hoa-giai-tri/tra-tien-khi-di-hen-ho-1375133.ldo