But after this incident, the family will definitely be more united and love each other more.
There are always things around us that seem so but are not so, seeing them with your own eyes is not necessarily the truth. Sometimes they even cause harmful misunderstandings, creating unnecessary conflicts. That is also the lesson that at the age of 65, Mr. Ly realized, shared on social networks and received attention from netizens.
Mr. Li is from Anhui Province (China), retired for several years now. He has only one son, his wife passed away last year. His son, A Tuong, married his high school classmate, the two had been in love for many years before getting married. Mr. Li also really likes Tieu Quyen (daughter-in-law's name) because she is both beautiful and virtuous, hardworking, gentle and filial to both sets of parents.
After getting married, the young couple lived with their father-in-law for convenience. After a while, Tieu Quyen became pregnant and gave birth to two healthy babies. Her workplace was quite far from home, so for convenience in taking care of her children, she decided to quit her job and stay home to be a housewife. At that time, Mr. Ly's son's business was developing well, his income was more than enough to support the whole family.
However, in the past year, his work has declined somewhat, and he even has debt outside. Meanwhile, the family's living expenses have increased day by day, not to mention the money for diapers and milk for the children, the monthly car payment, etc. Although Mr. Ly has given most of his pension to his daughter-in-law, it is still not enough.
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Recently, Mr. Ly suddenly noticed strange things about his daughter-in-law. After her husband finished work, she often tried to do everything quickly, took her older child to school, asked her father-in-law to look after the baby, then changed clothes, put on makeup and went out. This happened every day, so he felt confused.
One day, Mr. Ly asked his daughter-in-law where she was going. Tieu Quyen hesitated for a moment and then said that she was going to meet friends so she needed to dress neatly, otherwise her friends would look down on her. Mr. Ly thought about this a lot. He believed that his daughter-in-law was a good wife and would not disappoint his son, but he also felt confused, wondering what Tieu Quyen was doing that she had to hide it like that.
So as soon as his daughter-in-law left the house, Mr. Ly immediately took the child to a neighbor's house to help look after him and then quietly followed. A moment later, Tieu Quyen arrived at a hotel, looked around as if afraid someone would notice before going inside. The father-in-law was extremely surprised and had many doubts in his heart: His daughter-in-law already had a husband and children, why did she come to this place? Or was she hiding something shady from her husband?
The more he thought about it, the more scared he became, so it took a while for Mr. Ly to regain his composure and follow her into the hotel. However, at this point he had no idea where his daughter-in-law was to go find her, so he had to leave with anxiety.
That afternoon, when Tieu Quyen returned home, Mr. Ly noticed that his daughter-in-law was limping but did not say anything. When his son came home from work, he called both of them in to talk: "Tieu Quyen, what happened to your leg? Roll up your pants so everyone can see if there is anything wrong."
“I... Oh, this morning I went to the market and accidentally fell” - Tieu Quyen stammered.
At this time, Mr. Ly immediately told the story of seeing his daughter-in-law go into the hotel, making her face pale. His son was confused and did not understand: “Hey! What happened, Dad? What do you mean by hotel? I don’t understand? Tieu Quyen, are you hiding something from me? Could it be…”.
Knowing that she could no longer lie, Tieu Quyen tearfully admitted everything. She said that because she wanted to earn more money and support her husband, she found an hourly job. But she had been at home for many years and could only do manual labor, so she agreed to clean rooms at a hotel. However, the workplace was sensitive and could easily cause misunderstandings, and she did not want her husband to feel inferior because he could not take care of the family, so she decided to hide it.
“I just wanted to share some of the burden with my husband, but I couldn’t find a suitable job, so I had to work at the hotel. That’s the truth. If you don’t believe me, you can check the room name tag in my bag or go to the hotel and ask them.
"The reason I limped was because I accidentally fell and scratched my leg while cleaning the room. I don't want you two to worry, but having to keep lying makes me tired," Tieu Quyen said.
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Hearing his wife say this, Mr. Ly's son was extremely moved, he cried like a child: "I'm sorry. I'm a failure for letting you suffer like this without knowing...".
Mr. Ly himself looked at his daughter-in-law with pity. He said: “My child, I apologize for thinking badly of you. If you want to work, then go ahead, do whatever you want, as long as you think it is in accordance with the law and your conscience. I will help you take care of the children, and together our family will overcome this difficulty.”
In the end, Mr. Ly's misunderstanding about Tieu Quyen was resolved. From then on, he loved and respected his daughter-in-law even more. Indeed, even though they were family, only by going through difficulties together and resolving misunderstandings could the relationship become closer.
A year later, Tieu Quyen found a better job, working as a babysitter for a private education center, and her finances improved. Her husband, A Tuong, after quitting his old job, was hired by a new company, after much effort in finding a job at middle age. The couple had a stable income, so the atmosphere in the house was no longer as tense as before. With the support of her father-in-law, Tieu Quyen's two children were also healthy and growing up.
It can be seen that family life always has ironic situations that can ignite conflicts at any time. Whether or not to maintain a peaceful family depends on each person's choice of behavior and attitude in dealing with unexpected events. We all have prejudices, thoughts or stubborn egos. If we just open up and talk to each other, maybe all the problems will be resolved, maintaining the warmth, and money will also improve thanks to that.
Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/bo-chong-thay-con-dau-di-vao-khach-san-chong-khoc-nhu-dua-tre-khi-biet-moi-thu-172250209201955348.htm
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