Not taking care of grandchildren, when old, son and wife refuse to support

The article shared by Ms. Liu Yun, 70 years old, currently living in China, is shared on page 163.

My name is Liu Yun, I am 70 years old. When I was young, I was not good looking so I didn't get married until I was 28. My husband is 5 years older than me. When we first met, my husband's parents had already passed away. I was the youngest child so I was given an old house, every time it rained the whole house leaked.

After two years of marriage, my husband and I had a son. We loved him very much. Since childhood, he has always been a diligent student and later passed the entrance exam to a university in the province.

Tragedy strikes

My husband had stomach cancer. When I heard the news, I ran around everywhere to find a cure. At that time, my brother lent me some money and told me not to worry, it would not be too late to pay him back when I had the money. Just like that, my husband and I fought the disease together for 5 years, including 4 surgeries, staying from one hospital to another.

Không chăm cháu nội, về già vợ chồng con trai từ chối phụng dưỡng, tôi lập tức cho cháu gái căn nhà 2,2 tỷ đồng- Ảnh 1.

A year later, my son got married. He and his wife stayed in the city to start a business, so I didn't want to make things difficult for them, even though I didn't necessarily agree.

After getting married, I bought a house for my children. To get money, I sold a house, partly to pay off debt, and gave the remaining 650,000 NDT (equivalent to 2.2 billion VND) to my children to buy a house.

The reason I refused to take care of my grandchildren

The year my husband died was also the year my daughter-in-law gave birth to her grandson.

When my daughter-in-law gave birth, my husband was in the most critical stage. Once my son asked me to take care of his daughter-in-law during her confinement period, but I just wanted to focus on taking care of my husband, so I refused.

After my husband passed away, my son suggested that I move back to his house to live. He said that I could help take care of the house and my children, and that I would feel more comfortable. But I was not in the mood at all, so I did not agree.

That year, my son and his wife brought their grandson back to their hometown to celebrate Tet. This was the first time I saw my grandson. As soon as I saw him, I gave him a red envelope. Before going to the city, my daughter-in-law suggested taking care of the grandchildren for me. Seeing how hard my children were working, I agreed.

I thought that living with my children would improve my mood, but unexpectedly my health got worse and worse.

More and more conflicts

Không chăm cháu nội, về già vợ chồng con trai từ chối phụng dưỡng, tôi lập tức cho cháu gái căn nhà 2,2 tỷ đồng- Ảnh 2.

Before, my daughter-in-law and I didn't interact much, so we didn't understand each other. But since I came here, I see that my daughter-in-law and I have many different opinions. For example, about raising children. What time they go to bed, what time they drink milk, what time they go to the bathroom are all clearly regulated. If there is even a little mistake, they blame me.

I had to take care of my grandchild and do housework. In addition, I had been taking care of my sick husband for a long time, so my health was not good and I ate less. But my daughter-in-law did not understand me. Therefore, my daughter and I argued many times. I could not stand it anymore so I went back to my hometown.

From then on, my health was very poor. Occasionally, I called my son to ask about him but could only say a few sentences before hanging up.

The dutiful nephew

Luckily, when I was sick, my niece helped me a lot. She bought medicine and cooked for me. Once, when I had pneumonia, she was the one who took care of all the procedures when I was hospitalized.

Không chăm cháu nội, về già vợ chồng con trai từ chối phụng dưỡng, tôi lập tức cho cháu gái căn nhà 2,2 tỷ đồng- Ảnh 3.

Not long ago, my son bluntly said that he would not take care of me when I am old. Since my children said so, I had no choice but to make my own plans. I live alone in the countryside, fortunately I have a filial nephew who treats me wholeheartedly. I decided to give my niece a house worth 650,000 yuan (equivalent to 2.2 billion VND), as a token of gratitude for her taking care of me all this time.

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