How to make children confident to speak up?

Many parents always want their children to boldly express their thoughts, defend their opinions, and not be afraid to say what they want. However, many children are shy, afraid of being scolded, afraid of being accused of arguing back. So how can children dare to express their opinions confidently and skillfully? This requires parents to patiently create an environment, practice skills, and accompany their children every day.

Start by listening to your child.

If you want your child to dare to speak, parents must first be willing to listen. Give your child space to finish speaking, without interrupting or judging harshly. A caring look and an open-ended question will show your child that his or her opinion is valued, not dismissed.

Respect even immature ideas

Sometimes children's opinions are clumsy and contrary to what adults want. Instead of dismissing them, parents should patiently listen and help their children see their own unreasonable points. This respect helps children understand that speaking up does not mean being criticized.

Create a healthy debate "playground"

Small family discussions about what to eat, where to go, or how to decorate a room are great ways for children to practice expressing their opinions. Parents can encourage children to give reasons, listen to others’ opinions, and learn to argue while still respecting others.

Be a role model for your children.

Children will learn how to express their opinions from their parents. When adults know how to say what they think, present clearly, respect the listener and are willing to listen back, children will gradually form a confident and civilized way of communicating.

Teach your children to speak at the right time and in the right way.

Being able to express your opinion does not mean speaking out in a reckless manner. Parents should guide their children on how to choose the right time and how to use appropriate words to avoid unnecessary conflicts. This skill is very important when children participate in group study and community activities.

Timely recognition and praise

Every time your child dares to express his opinion, give him a compliment or an encouraging look. Recognition will boost his confidence and help him see that speaking his mind is something to be respected.

Encourage your child to read books and expand their vocabulary.

Many children are reluctant to express their opinions because they do not know how to express themselves. Parents can encourage their children to read books, tell stories, and participate in soft skills clubs to improve their language skills. When they have a rich vocabulary and way of expressing themselves, children will easily be confident in saying what they think.

Let children make mistakes and correct them

No one speaks well the first time. Children are no exception. Parents should not worry too much when their children speak illogically or make mistakes when debating. Be patient and correct them, pointing out inappropriate points so that they can gradually improve their ability to express their opinions.

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