The mother-in-law who had just retired showed off her power to her daughter-in-law. After hearing her harsh response, she had to give in and declared that she would no longer care!

From the first day I got married, my mother-in-law and I did not get along well. Luckily, she worked before that, so we only saw each other at night. After dinner, I went straight to my room, and did not leave the room unless there was anything else to do. However, after Tet, she retired and stayed home every day. So after living together for a few months, I urged my husband to move out to avoid headaches.

The son was controlled by his daughter-in-law, the mother-in-law was very angry, she declared that she had a lot of money but did not give us a single penny, but left it all to her daughter. If we wanted to live separately, we would earn our own money to buy a house.

With such a difficult and nagging mother-in-law, if I had to take her money and have to obey her orders for the rest of my life, I couldn't do that. So it's best to be financially independent, not afraid of anyone.

My husband and I have a good income, according to my rough calculation, we will be able to buy a house after only 4 years of marriage, but "man proposes, God disposes". After living together for a few months, I discovered that my husband had a playboy habit. When we were still in love, he didn't want me to know about his bad habit so he hid it. When he possessed me, his bad habits gradually revealed themselves.

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My husband's monthly salary is 20 million VND but he doesn't give me a single penny. When I reminded him, he said that when we have children, he will give me all his salary, but for now, he will keep it for the big things, and use my salary for household expenses. We are newlyweds, I don't want money issues to affect our relationship so I let my husband do what he thinks is right.

Last week, a stranger came to ask my husband for money. I was shocked to learn that he had been drinking with friends for months without paying his debt, which was nearly 100 million VND. At that time, my husband wanted to use all his savings to pay the person, but I refused to give it to him. That person went to ask my in-laws to pay the debt for their son.

Soon after, we were summoned for questioning and my husband confessed everything. My mother-in-law was very angry but still withdrew money to pay her son's debt and said this was the last time she would spend money on him.

When there were only people in the house, my mother-in-law blamed me for not knowing how to discipline my husband, allowing him to be destructive and spoiled. I angrily said:

"My husband is in this situation because of the way you raised him, not me. It's because you spoiled him, trusted him, and were too proud of him that he became like this. If only you had intervened sooner when he was drunk, staying out all night, and hanging out with friends, he wouldn't have gotten into this mess today."

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Unable to bear the daughter-in-law's words, the angry mother-in-law pointed at my face and scolded me for daring to talk back to her and chased me out of the house. Unable to bear the unreasonableness of my mother-in-law, I argued back:

"There, I'll give you back your precious son. You should teach him well. I'm tired of this debt."

I also added that I was the one who was happy to be free from him. From now on, I was free and only needed to take care of myself.

Seeing me angry, my mother-in-law was afraid that I would really abandon her son, so she told me that we were already husband and wife, we could do whatever we wanted, she had nothing to do with it anymore, she was old and couldn't control us.

When I got home, I took it out on my husband in anger, hoping he would focus on work and stop drinking with his friends. But he didn't listen and got angry and went out all night.

These days, my husband has been drinking more and more, coming home drunk every day. He's already this bad without children, so how much worse will he be after having children?

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