Early in the morning, the footsteps of passersby seem to be more hurried when in the school of children, there is a buzz of excitement "Tet, Tet, Tet, Tet is coming...". Somewhere, on the journey far away from home, the children who have left their homeland are also looking forward to returning...
Nguyen Dan means the first day of the new year. It is not only the moment of transition between the old year and the new year, but it also contains many layers of national culture. Anyone, no matter where they are, just need to hear the three words Tet Nguyen Dan and thoughts about their homeland, ancestors, grandparents, parents, and relatives will arise in their hearts. And then, in the thousands of busy times at the end of the year, they must somehow break away to return to their birthplace. Or if they cannot return, they still pack many gifts to send to burn incense for their ancestors, to wish the elderly and children a happy new year...
Tet is an occasion for children far from home to return home to reunite with their families.
That's why my uncle, despite living far away, despite having returned home several times each year, always returned during the days leading up to Tet. Returning to burn incense in memory of his ancestors and parents, to wander the alley leading to his childhood home, reminiscing about old times. He was always accompanied by his children and grandchildren. That was how he instilled in the thoughts and feelings of the young generation the so-called love of homeland, love of blood, of relatives...
But it's not just my uncle, it's always like that, in the last days of December, my village cemetery is full of people returning. Many generations of villagers who have gone far away meet each other, together remember their parents, together tell stories of their childhood... There are tears, and laughter... The last days of December, therefore, become very peaceful, all the chaos of life is temporarily put aside, in the heart there are only stories full of love for the homeland, imbued with warm family love...
Returning to visit the old village is one of the things many people prioritize during Tet. Photo: Internet
Life has so many changes, neighborhoods and areas will welcome this person, see that person off... That's why many places become old neighborhoods for many people. Some people have been gone forever, but there are also people who return to visit their old places every year during the traditional New Year, even though their houses have been sold and their parents have gone to far away places. My mountain village has such a person! A couple of times, on my return trip, I met her.
She said that her family has now settled in Hanoi, but every year she returns to this Nam hamlet during the traditional Tet holiday. This is an opportunity for her to meet as many people as possible, to hear many stories about her parents, relatives, and her own childhood. During these trips, she will visit each house, burn incense to remember the deceased, give lucky money to the elderly and children, and make a cozy meal with old friends... For her, these trips not only enrich the meaning of the Lunar New Year reunion, but also help her to open up the most beautiful things in her spiritual life, which make up the culture of her life...
These days, in the countryside, every family has set up a pole to celebrate Tet. My brothers and sisters who work in different places have also returned home, preparing for Tet with their parents. In every village, in every market, people are as crowded as a loom. Rich and poor alike are busy buying and selling to fulfill the Tet rituals. Mixed in with the buying and selling are greetings, appointments and meetings between the locals and those returning from far away. It is hurried yet still very leisurely. In every word, in every exchange, it is gentler than usual.
No one gives up the important rituals during the 3 days of Tet, in which, many families still keep the tradition of wrapping banh chung... Photo: Internet
I suddenly remembered the proverb that my grandmother used to recite when she was alive: "Even if you are angry to the point of death on New Year's Day, it's fine" or "Even if you are hungry to the point of death, you will still be full on New Year's Day." That's what Tet is, it is an occasion for people to wrap up the hardships, frustrations, and anger of the old year, so that on New Year's Day, they can open up new feelings and new hopes together.
During the last days of the twelfth lunar month with a light drizzle, I suddenly thought about the increasingly diverse entertainment options during Tet. Some people choose to return to their hometowns to celebrate Tet, others choose to travel far and near, but absolutely no one gives up the important rituals during the 3 days of Tet.
Lunar New Year still retains all its profound humanistic meanings, the rituals practiced express people's sacred desire and belief in the harmony of heaven, earth and human; express the relationship between people and nature in the spirit of agricultural culture, with the clan and village in the spirit of national community...
Phong Linh
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