Is wife or children more important to men?

Just one small act can warm the whole family. (Photo: ITN).

Sometimes, just a small action can warm the whole family. But sometimes, just a misconception can easily bury love in marriage.

There is a story, after the wife gave birth, the husband rushed into the delivery room and immediately asked about the child. Not long after that, the wife publicly asked for a divorce. The reason was: The husband loved the child more than he loved his wife.

This may sound extreme. However, in real life, it is not uncommon for couples to break up due to similar circumstances.

Many women care about their status and their children in their husbands' hearts not because they are jealous of their children, but because they want to use this method to test how much men care about them.

If a woman endures the pain of giving birth and is determined to stay with her husband for the rest of her life but he is still not as important as her children, most of them will be disappointed. So, for a man, does he love his wife or his children more?

In the variety show “Baby Diary”, D. wrote a long letter to his child after his wife gave birth, in which he wrote: “My dear child, I love you very much, but I love your mother more. I will protect your mother with you when you grow up.”

If women endure the pain of childbirth and are determined to stay with their husbands for the rest of their lives but they are still not as important as their children, most of them will be disappointed. (Photo: ITN).

As soon as the show premiered, D.'s words immediately became a trending topic and attracted countless likes. Most people thought that this was an intelligent and emotionally wise answer for two reasons:

In our life journey, we will meet many people, whether they are parents, children, relatives, friends, in the end they can only accompany us for a short time. Therefore, we should invest more love in our spouse, especially if we only compare our spouse with our children.

Children are the fruit of love but they are not everything in marriage. When they are young, we will accompany them carefully and care for their growth.

As our children grow up and start their own lives, they gradually withdraw from our world. At this time, we still only hang around our spouse.

The main identity of marriage is always husband and wife. Other relationships are supplementary conditions and are less important than the couple themselves. Loving and repaying your wife is the right choice, because your wife will protect you throughout your life.

Many men will focus on their children after having children, however, once they neglect maintaining their marital relationship, many unexpected conflicts will arise.

Everyone wants to be favored, even in family relationships. A man who loves his wife will give her more warmth and confidence, helping her to have confidence in marriage.

People who value others too much and always make their wives sad will definitely have many holes in their relationship.

When your children are no longer with you in your later years, your life can be miserable. Only those who care for their wives can have complete happiness.

Nofeo once said: "Parents' love is the best gift for their children, because the way parents get along is the starting point for children to come into contact with and understand love and marriage."

In the process of growing up of a child, the most important teacher is the parents. The child's outlook on life and attitude towards love will be more or less influenced by the parents.

If a husband is too indifferent to his wife, no matter how much effort he puts into his children, it will still harm them. Because children do not have the ability to make mature judgments, they will think from the beginning that the relationship between husband and wife should be like this, and later they will behave like this.

More importantly, when the love between parents is not strong enough, children can hardly feel the warmth of the family. They live in an environment without warmth and as a result may become depressed and unhappy. This kind of impact cannot be ignored.

Whether a family is happy or not depends on the relationship between the husband and wife. Couples who know how to express their love strongly will make their children feel the happiness that their family deserves. Children born in such an environment will have deeper feelings for their parents and respect them.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/vo-hay-con-quan-trong-hon-doi-voi-dan-ong-172240922144714671.htm