Girlfriend has billions of dong and 2 plots of land but forced to sign property contract before getting married

My girlfriend has 2 plots of land and 2 billion VND, salary is more than 50 million VND/month, my salary is 10 million; she wants to sign a property contract so that "if my husband is useless, I can leave him".

A young man's sharing about the marital property contract is becoming the center of debate on several social networking forums.

His girlfriend is a successful woman with strong financial potential. She proposed to sign a prenuptial agreement before they lived together.

The guy said: "My girlfriend and I plan to get married. My girlfriend comes from a well-off family and has a lot of money. She is also very talented, working for a foreign company with a salary of 2,000 USD per month. I am just a lowly employee with a salary of 10 million VND/month. During our time together, we had our ups and downs, but we both overcame them. My girlfriend currently has 2 plots of land and a savings book of 2 billion VND, which is her personal property.

Recently my girlfriend said she wanted to make a marital property contract because she is good and has a lot of assets. After the wedding, she will buy a house for the two of us to live in, but the money she spent to buy the house must be in her name, it is her personal property, I am not allowed to have my name on it. The money she earns will be divided into 2 parts; one part is for family living expenses and a little extra for joint savings; one part is her own money (there is no way she has a high salary and her husband has a low salary and wants to take all her share).

The story of the controversial marital property contract. (Screenshot)

My girlfriend said that if I stay with her, I will be able to eat well, dress well, enjoy material comforts, and not worry about being disadvantaged, but money and property must have a clear marriage contract. Because the property she has built up all her life must be hers and left to her children. If her husband is decent and kind, he will enjoy a comfortable life; if he is not good, she will leave him. Is she being too calculating and cautious with me? Marrying a rich wife brings a lot of pressure .

This post was copied, photographed and shared on many forums and became a hot topic of discussion and debate.

Many opinions support the girl's actions and views, saying that signing a premarital property contract is necessary and reasonable, that this contract helps to minimize conflicts and disputes in the future when there is a rift in the relationship or a broken marriage: "This girl is very smart in doing so, money must be clear from the beginning, no one knows the future, if the husband has an affair, there will still be property for herself and her children."

"This is not only a way to protect personal property, but also a measure to maintain fairness and clarity from the beginning"; "The girl did the right thing by protecting the fruits of her labor. Pre-marital property belongs to each person and wanting to protect it is understandable, especially when there is a big difference in income between the two people"...

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Regarding the young man's indignant reaction, many netizens had a mildly critical attitude: "When people get married, they have to pay their salary. You don't have to pay and you get more, what's the best?"; "If you're good at making a lot of money, you can buy land in your own name, she will agree, why do you want to put your name on assets created from someone else's efforts?"; "She calculated, but she calculated for you to have a comfortable life, she is still the economic pillar of the family"...

On the contrary, many people completely sympathize with the young man, thinking that family happiness should not be affected by financial calculations, and that a marital property contract can hurt a man's feelings and self-esteem: "With a small salary, a young man can feel pressured and lose his voice in the relationship if he has to sign a contract regulating property ."

If you are richer than your future spouse, should you ask for a separate asset protection contract?

"If you marry a wife who is at a disadvantage like this, it's better to marry a poor but happy wife"; "Isn't it like slapping your boyfriend's self-esteem to demand a property contract like that? It's okay for the husband to have the wife's property, but it's not okay for the wife's property to have the husband's property? "...

In Vietnam, the requirement to sign a property protection contract before marriage is easily seen as a sign of lack of trust and respect for the other party, valuing money over feelings. However, more and more young people are openly facing this issue, considering it a practical way to protect their rights and avoid future troubles when the marriage is not as expected.

The above story has been online for several days but continues to be shared, each post has thousands of interactions with conflicting arguments, which shows that prenuptial contracts related to property are still considered a delicate and sensitive issue.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/ban-gai-co-tien-ty-va-2-lo-dat-nhung-bat-ky-hop-dong-tai-san-moi-chiu-cuoi-172241115084715631.htm