Don't work with suspicious people, don't associate with reckless people.

Everyone hopes that their life will be smooth and successful and they will work hard to build wealth and raise a family. When we reach 50, we have a house, a car and savings. But don't think that this is enough. You have to work harder to support yourself in your later years.

You need to remember the following 4 things to have a peaceful time at the end of your life, avoiding uncertainties and risks.

1. Don't worry too much about the present, prepare for the rest of your life.

There was a craftsman who made raincoats to sell, but for three years in a row, the place where he lived had drought and the land was barren. So he got discouraged and gave up, stopping his work. After a while, it suddenly rained, he saw an opportunity to make money but it was too late. At that time, he could not produce raincoats to sell in time.

The story goes that there was a farmer who grew rice but was flooded for 3 years. Many people advised him to stop and change direction but he was determined. Unexpectedly, the next crop yielded a good harvest and made a big profit. The farmer calculated after the harvest and saw that, except for the previous rice seed cost, he still had a big profit.

You always need to have a broad view, looking to the future. When we are 50 years old, we have enough food and clothes, but what about when we are 60 or 70 years old? Or when you are 80 or 90 years old, how will you live?

If you save a little, prepare for retirement and spend wisely, you really have nothing to worry about. Don't just mess around and think you can always make a lot of money. As people get older, they have to take care of themselves, and prepare for their health to decline.

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2. Don't be extreme and don't be jealous

Have you ever wondered: Why do some things become more obvious when we try to cover them up?

Look at the leopards in the mountains. When they are born, they are a pale black color that is still difficult to detect. The adult leopards hide in the bushes, blending in with the natural vegetation, so they are more successful in hunting.

People are the same, there are things that need to be kept secret, hidden, otherwise others will harm you. Your life may be peaceful, you have status, high income, so there is a possibility that many people are jealous of you. They even do many bad things behind your back with the desire to bring you down.

It is better to live in seclusion, there are things and things that should not be shown off. The so-called bright future does not mean a quick change of fortune, wealth and prosperity, sometimes it is just daily peace. A wise person is someone who always knows how to keep his privacy.

3. Don't work with suspicious people, don't make friends indiscriminately.

You need to learn to enjoy being alone. Knowing someone for a long time does not mean the relationship will be better, there can still be conflicts, even hostility.

The people who hurt you the most are usually the ones closest to you. You need to work hard in the first half of your life and cherish your life in the second half. In the second half of your life, you will no longer ask for many benefits, and of course you do not want too much worldly affection.

Starting at age 50, you should work less to socialize. Smart old people are less social and talk less. They rarely dance or play mahjong. Instead, they have more time alone. Even when I go fishing, I get used to being alone. Whether they like it or not doesn't matter, as long as they are happy.

When you have fewer relationships around you, there will probably be fewer bad people. You will have to be less vigilant, life like that is so peaceful!

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4. Spend more time with your loved ones, don't let go of each other too quickly

In the past, women considered their husbands as everything, until they encountered marital problems, they fell into depression, disappointed with their spouses. Of course, in today's era, women are much more mentally independent, less emotionally dependent on men.

However, that does not mean you should be indifferent or look down on your spouse. Whether you are a man or a woman, you need to cherish your spouse. A good marriage is when the husband and wife together overcome the storms and watch the light of dawn.

Money is just a fleeting thing, children grow up and have their own lives, only then will you understand the role of your spouse. Don't lose your relationship, love your spouse with all your heart, together we will overcome all difficulties.

Ung Ha Chi

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