Every year, on June 28, Vietnamese people remind each other of a very special occasion – Vietnamese Family Day . This is not only a milestone to honor the cultural values of family that have been cultivated for generations, but also an opportunity for each person to calm down in the hustle and bustle of life, to take a moment of silence for love – for the home that they belong to.
Since ancient times, Vietnamese families have been the cradle that nurtures the soul and personality of people. Houses with three or four generations living together are not only a common thing, but also a symbol of solidarity, filial piety and respect for elders and juniors. In that warm home, parents take care of grandparents, children and grandchildren take care of their parents - a circle of love that always continues. The family is not only a place to take shelter but also a place to pass on family traditions and customs, and the first lessons in life about how to live as a human being. Living together helps the family maintain family traditions, habits and customs, and at the same time know etiquette, respect for elders and juniors. That is the traditional beauty in Vietnamese families that has passed down and preserved those good values until now.
During his lifetime, President Ho Chi Minh emphasized: “Only when the sprout is green will the tree be strong, only when the bud is green will the leaves be fresh, and the fruit be good…” meaning that the role of nurturing people from within the family is the root in building a nation. These teachings are still valuable today – reminding us that to have a strong society, we must start with warm, orderly families. The family is the first and most important environment to shape each person’s personality. Children growing up in families filled with love and respect will certainly become healthy individuals and live responsibly towards society. The family is also a spiritual and cultural support, helping to maintain an ethical lifestyle, contributing to building a peaceful, orderly society. Because in a prosperous country, a modernized society, the family is still the core, the cradle of society, the link to the past and the bridge to the future of each of us.
Acquiring the traditional cultural values of the nation and following Uncle Ho's teachings, in today's era, the future generation continues to preserve those good traditional values, always studying and following Uncle Ho's example, the whole country joins hands in the work of preserving and protecting the family, caring for andeducating children to nurture the future with practical activities such as organizing family cultural festivals with special attention to young families connecting and loving, organizing propaganda on preventing domestic violence, promoting the cultural identity of Vietnamese families...
In the era of globalization, market economy and strong digital transformation, Vietnamese family models are also transforming from traditional to modern. However, many challenges are arising: the increase in domestic violence, pragmatic lifestyle, broken family relationships due to lack of communication and companionship. But at that time, preserving a beautiful lifestyle, harmonizing traditional values and modern lifestyle becomes even more necessary. There is no need for great actions, sometimes just a message asking how we are, a full meal with all members, or a comforting handshake... is enough to light up happiness in every home. Therefore, sustainable development cannot lack the participation of families. Each family needs to become a "cultural fortress", repelling social evils; at the same time educating people to live responsibly and humanely.
In the hustle and bustle of life, family members have to deal with many different tasks, but to build a happy family, members must care for each other, husband and wife must understand the value of home; children have the duty to respect, love, be grateful, be filial, support their parents, and preserve the honor and good traditions of the family. Perhaps, in the family, each person has their own way of expressing their feelings, but all emphasize the importance of loving and caring for each other. Even the smallest act of caring for the sick contains profound meaning about family affection. When family members are close together, or far apart due to geographical distance, but if we put all our love into our loved ones, we will see that seemingly simple actions such as video calls, encouraging messages, and inquiries can also make the longing and moments of separation become closer, making family affection a solid support, a place where happiness is filled at all times and anywhere.
Moreover, in everyone's life, there will be times when we encounter difficulties and adversities. The spiritual support that helps us get up and escape from difficulties and failures that seem insurmountable is being with our loved ones in the family. That helps us realize the preciousness of family happiness. Family affection brings an invaluable strength that no one can deny, becoming the most valuable thing left after going through many different relationships in society. Therefore, family affection is something noble, sacred and extremely durable, but if we do not know how to cherish it, we will lose that beautiful affection.
Family happiness is not only about material things but also about the connection, sharing, love and mutual respect between members. Family is where each person finds comfort, understanding, and motivation to live better. Therefore, celebrating Vietnamese Family Day is also an opportunity for each person to express their feelings and give love to their relatives. This is also a meaningful day if we give words of love to family members, at the same time preserve traditional values to promote good ethics to help children and grandchildren cherish family affection, respect and express gratitude to grandparents and parents - those who have devoted their whole lives to raising us.
Family is not only the place of birth, but also the place of spiritual nourishment, the most sustainable root in the career of building people and developing society. Honoring family is not only a nostalgia for tradition, but also a practical action to build the future. It is a responsibility and also an honor when we are part of a warm family with strong Vietnamese love.
“Family is where life begins and love never ends”
Ho Chi Minh City, June 3, 2025
Dao Thi Hong Quyen
Department of Communications - Education and International Relations
Source: https://baotangphunu.com/gia-dinh-noi-bat-dau-cua-yeu-thuong-va-diem-tua-cua-hanh-phuc/
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